Thursday, December 4 – Cool and damp, but avoidable showers. Had bath, and Bridget came round to clean. Felt quite cold during the day, but better later on. Watched football on TV and read a bit. Also looked at family tree. Later we drove Jude to Cake and Compline at Claire’s: good session with Bridget, David, Vicky and for the first time Nikki, who found us after first going to Magdalen Street instead of Magdalen Road. Advent compline, of course. Nice food from Claire. 

Friday – Cold: had to de-ice screen. But fine until evening, when it rained hard. Dot came with me to surgery in morning – check on medication; “no problem” with head scan. Refused to take blood thinner. Doc a bit hard to understand but very pleasant. Afterwards changed next appointment and got pills. Then went to Morrisons and stocked up: also got petrol. Had bath in afternoon. Went out for street meet but was too cold: came back in. Dot stayed out with Des, Chris, Matt, Angela, Mark (who leaves tomorrow) and Joe and Sam. Drove to Sillars Christmas do with Dot and Nova. Tried to pick up Dave the viola player from Bullard Road, but  when we tracked him down he was clearly ill and Dot persuaded him not to come. Got lost finding the venue (Roundwood Bowls Club in Taverham) and so were quite late. Sat with Nova and Penny and later with Vicki and Anthony plus one or two others. Took a few pix and drove home quite successfully. Watched highlights of Day 2 of Ashes Second Test: not doing too well. 

Saturday – Stayed in again, though weather largely dry. Compiled the bones of Christmas card/present list and started on what would eventually turn out to be a Christmas letter. Still felt rather chilly and itchy, but am eating all right: Dot did some nice cod. Dot listened to Norwich match, which was on at 12.30. Did well to start with but lost 3-2. On the plus side Spurs won 2-0 and Liverpool drew 3-3 at home to Leeds. Watched some snooker, then later a couple of episodes of The Night Manager, plus an odd Motherland and Return to Paradise. Too much, I hear you say. You’re probably right, but I don’t have much energy.  Have noticed occasional dizziness too, which is a bit odd. But then I am a bit odd. Steps getting very low – under 1000 today. 

Sunday – Bright sky to start with but turned wet and miserable. I felt a bit better, even after having a bath and reading quite a lot. Dot spent a lot oof time on cards and presents, including going to Morrisons. I managed to finish a Christmas letter with pictures, which I checked with David when he FaceTimed in early evening. Chrissy seems to be quite a lot better. Watched quite a bit of football and the Ashes (lost 2nd Test, of course), then another episode of The Night Manager. Cooked meal (salmon) and cleared away. Joe has put some Christmas lights out. Watched Match of the Day before going to bed. 

Monday – Milder and mainly dry. Went with Dot to Brooke schools to pick up some sugar. Discovered water in boot again. Drained it and put in tarpaulin, plus sugar waiting in the garage. Ciara came round in afternoon to hear about sugar machinations: she will probably come with us one day next week. Booked an eye test for Wednesday and had another look at the Christmas cards/presents list. Also put bins out.  In the evening watched the end of The Night Manager, which turned out to be surprisingly satisfying. Cooked lamb, which wasn’t bad, but then it wasn’t meant to be. 

Saturday, November 29 – Plenty of rain, though perhaps not enough to qualify for the forecast warning. Stayed in bed during the morning, but later had a bath and got up. Felt better but still fairly fragile. Dot went to football of course and was rewarded with a 3-1 win against QPR. Played pretty well, she said. Watched a couple of episodes of The Black Swan (Danish) and a couple of Return to Paradise. FaceTimed David: Chrissy improving though still with little energy. She was lying on the couch. Spurs lost 2-1 to Fulham. Dot did me avocado and egg on toast, followed by fruit. Have lost quite a bit of weight but now eating well. Still rather shaky, which probably isn’t surprising. 

Sunday – Advent, hope. Weather bright and dry but cool. Still quite reluctant to return to reality, though after a bath I went down to kitchen to chat with Dot and Des. Cooked myself some avocado, toast and egg with truffle oil. Gradually refuelling, though aspects of gut still a bit worrying. No pain, though. In the evening Dot went for a meal with Anna and Howard, plus Matt and Amanda, Phil and Clare  and had a good time …. I stayed at home, watched the end of the Danish documentary, The Black Swan, and some other bits about villages by the sea, plus some football. Also cooked myself some soup with sourdough, and had jelly and biscuit. 

Began reading Long Island by Colm Toibin. Dot home around 10.45, and we watched a couple of matches before bed. 

Monday – Very damp again, but some dry periods. Grey. Both slept late. Felt a bit shaky but improved as day went on, especially after Dot cooked me lovely fish meal (I did potatoes). Drove Dot to violin lesson at 4pm and picked her up at around 5.20pm. Apparently she did well. I caught up a bit on e-mails. We put rubbish out in evening after watching a couple of episodes of Edge of Darkness, set in 1980s. 

Tuesday – Quite pleasant, with some sun. Happy to be able to get to Town House at lunchtime for the Archant pensioners’ Christmas meal. Practically everyone was there when we arrived early, but fortunately Tricia had saved us seats. Meal very tasty, though it could have been hotter. Had no trouble in eating a fair bit.

Afterwards drove Dot to Boots, then went home to rest while she shopped there and at Morrisons. Picked her up around 3pm. Felt very tired but improved during rest of day – kept nibbling. Watched final four episodes of Edge of Darkness, which was very well done, though I would have liked more people, especially in suits, to get their comeuppance. Also a bit green at the end. Interesting piece by Ian McNeice  commenting on it. Des has reported another drug dealer. Think I’m feeling better. 

Wednesday – Dry; still chilly. Bit more energetic but felt cold in the afternoon. David FaceTimed; glad to say Chrissy is improved and looking much better. Did quite a lot of practical things; caught up on e-mails, wrote some things for Diderot, checked bank account etc. Sent some quotes to Amy. While Dot was out at orchestra rehearsal (she drove herself and Nova) I went into the loft to look for last year’s Christmas list but couldn’t find it. Still, got rid of suitcases. Earlier went out and checked the tyres because of repeated dashboard warnings. As expected, they were fine. (Same thing happened last time it was serviced.) Dot worked out  sugar list for schools. Watched penultimate episode of Shetland.

Wednesday, November 14 – ten days ago – Showery and cold. I left at 10.40 to take Mike Read to Graham Wright’s funeral. Lots of nice things said (rightly), but a complete absence of the supernatural. Also the civil celebrant spoke too quickly. No singing or prayers, but some good music – Hey Jude, Albatross, Whiter Shade of Pale… Also there was Frances from the ECN library (where Joy Wright worked), and we sat with her, because she didn’t know anyone else. Afterwards left Mike with some chess friends and rushed back to join Bridget’s birthday party at the Maids Head. 

Bit of a struggle to get there (walked from home), especially as I couldn’t find Bridget & Co (including Dot) in the hotel – had to ask. Lovely refreshments of sandwiches, chips and tea. Dot had been given a lift up by Colin Wright (no relation), who is fixing our front wall. Also there were the Cake and Compline group (except Phil and Vicky) and some people from Christ Church who I’d met. Oh, and David (Archer) of course. Took some nice pictures. Dot and I walked home afterwards, and I took the opportunity to lie down – feeling cold and tired. Later cooked some eggs and baked beans, and Dot went to orchestra rehearsal with Janet and Nova, at a temporary venue off the ring road near Sprowston. I spent hours trying to work out how to pay for scratch card parking (largely because I  had to upload a utility bill, which is not as easy as it sounds). Managed 5000 steps. Heavy rain evening and weather warning of possible snow in Norfolk tomorrow. Had FaceTime with David: he had a good journey back.

Thursday and Friday – Ill. Thursday was very wet, and I had felt so bad during the night with stomach pains etc that I never got up. Should have gone up to walk-in centre, but thought I’d give it a chance to sort itself out. Mistake, obviously. Woke at 7 the next day and discovered the walk-in centre was already open. Dot heroically drove me up there, and I was seen in about ten minutes. Not too impressed with nurse, who reminded me of Philip Robinson (Sorry, Philip). He prescribed a different antibiotic, and we drove down to Boots at Riverside to get it – had to wait a quarter of an hour for them to open. Went back to bed. 

Antibiotics had to be taken with food, which was awkward because I wasn’t hungry. Discovered later in the day that I’d forgotten to take my usual pills both yesterday and today. Colin is making progress with the wall, and Dot had a long visit from Nikki. Lots of nice messages from others, and Des also came over, together with Mark and Sarah with flowers, drink and chocolates for her birthday. Really kind. Later Dot went over for indoor street meet at Des’s, and I found a card to give her. Not exactly what I’d planned. Put off Parish Pump, thank goodness, in view of what followed. 

Saturday – Again very wet, but I didn’t venture out. Dot made arrangements to get Anne and Kim to her concert, and spent a long time receiving gifts, visits and messages for her 80th birthday. She is very popular, unsurprisingly. She is lovely, after all. She left for rehearsals at about 3 and gave me a ring halfway through. Rehearsals very good. And so was concert. At end Dot was singled out for having a significant birthday and everyone applauded and sang Happy Birthday. Wish I could have been there. She got back just after 10, accompanied by a woman screaming in the distance (no idea). David, Oliver and Amy wrote lovely things on Diderot about her. There was probably more: I was in a bit of a haze. 

Sunday – Slight improvement in afternoon, both in the weather and my condition. Had long bath, ate soup and jelly – oh, and a round of toast earlier. Finished reading Exit Music – pretty good – in bath. David checked in by FaceTime and Dot wrote many thank you notes. I caught up on e-mails. Felt quite a lot better but still very tired. 

Monday – Lovely in Norwich, but very wet by the time we got to Blakeney. Bit of a miracle we did, as I was still feeling well below par. Some kind of miscommunication with Evetts meant we did not meet till cocktails. I wasn’t really with it. Dot did most of packing and organising, checking with Colin and neighbours. I ate some soup and jelly and a few biscuits, and watched a bit of football on TV. I am now not really in pain, but have a sore chest and am hoarse, as well as heavy-headed. 

Tuesday – Mainly sunny, but with some heavy showers. Not that I would know, as I stayed in bed after joining the others for breakfast. Managed to eat boiled egg, croissant and a bit of fruit. Thought I was on the up… but got very tired and had to sleep while Dot drove others to Jarrolds Letheringsett and then Holt. She got back mid-afternoon, and I finished lots of puzzles in the paper, including tough sudoku. Felt a bit down before supper, but managed a small plate of Binham Blue fries, plus rather too much drink. Afterwards we joined the Evetts in their remote room for a splash of Jack Daniel’s and some chat, before making our way precariously back to our room. Meanwhile after leading Oxford 1-0 for a long time, Norwich conceded in the 96th minute, a fact noted by Dot’s cousin Adrian. 

Wednesday and Thursday – Weather mixed. Think the previous night’s drinks didn’t go down well, because I had a bad night followed by a bad day. Dot took Dave and Julia to Wells, and they seemed to have a good time. Dot was almost complimented on her driving, which is in fact excellent. I was brought some soup by room service – cauliflower soup, very nice. Seemed to have a better night and was able to get to breakfast (boiled egg) and then help with packing and paying. Left about 10, just after Julia and Dave. Journey back no problem, and watched some football with Dot for about an hour +.  Then stomach hurt a lot (gas); tried bath but had to go to bed and slept for 2-3 hours, after which I felt better. David FaceTimed: Chrissy has flu, and so has Roger. We had quite a long chat. Dot went to shop, and on her return I took my last tablet with biscuits, cheese and jelly. Stayed in bed. 

Friday – Sunny. Looked nice, but I didn’t go out. Felt decidedly better, though I had to take paracetamol. Ate a bit – Dot did me boiled egg. I helped sort out newspapers, and then she drove to the Marsh Harrier for lunch with Julia and Allen.  They had asked her a couple of days ago whether she wanted to postpone, but she hadn’t seen it. While she was out I shaved and had a bath, which made me tired for some reason. Brown bins haven’t been emptied despite protests from Mark.

Later street meet was in our lounge because of rain: Des, Chris, Mark, Matt, Ciara and Dot. I was in bed after having eaten some soup. When they went I went down and watched two episodes of Shetland with Dot. After she’d watched the end of a Vera she’d been looking at, she brought me a cup of tea. Earlier David FaceTimed: Chrissy still quite ill, and so apparently is Roger.

Friday November 14 – Very wet all day. Feeling quite bad, too, until evening. Still on paracetamol and of course antibiotics. Dot and David went to Morrisons to stock up with food, including vegan stuff for Amy. Then David showed me some new features of Diderot, which was exciting. Can’t wait to get more on there. Slept a bit in afternoon. Oliver and Amy arrived just before 7.30pm, both on good form. Dot had just got food ready, and so we ate almost straight away. Some mild political discussion. Cleared up with Dot while Oliver went to bed in living room, Amy in Dot’s study and David in spare bedroom. We were in bed just after 11. David had spent some time earlier looking through old photos, often with hilarity. 

Saturday – Less rain, but plenty of damp in the air, sometimes escalating into drizzle. Felt groggy in the morning, but much better by evening. Dot and I took bus up to Castle Museum, and the others walked. Had a good look round, but were somewhat underwhelmed by the changes. View from battlements very wet and misty. Oliver bought us a scone and tea/coffee. Dot, Amy and I walked back via Bookshop and The Close. Quite tired. Had evening meal at Gem at 5pm: very good, especially the Turkish tea. David very kindly paid. Back home watched Scotland lose narrowly to Greece. Over 6000 steps. 

Sunday – Still mainly overcast but dry. Chilly. Felt pretty rotten most of the day  – prawns? alcohol? – but improved late evening. Didn’t eat too much, though Dot did a nice salady afternoon lunch. Earlier David and Oliver went out for walk and picked up croissants for breakfast. Later I had a lie-down, and the other four went into the city visiting various shops, including Waterstones. Dot got home first on her own and we watched part of Songs of Praise. Saw Oliver off on the 1703 via Cambridge because main line wasn’t running. Later we watched the goals in Albania 0-2 England. Later Kevin and his girlfriend Tracey came round and we had a chat before leaving them to it. Watched an episode of Shetland while Amy did university stuff online. David went to pub for an hour or so with K and T. Cleared up: quite late in bed. Only about 2000.

Monday – Cold with very occasional rain – notably when Dot and I walked over to the station with David and Amy for them to catch the 11am to London. They were in good time, and we think Amy got to Southampton in time for her lecture. Afterwards I had a bath and eventually felt better: the antibiotics seem to be working, unless it’s the prayers. Helped Dot to clear up and get rubbish together, then went to lie down, just as Kim rang and asked if she could come round, which she did (she was at the station). She’s still in a bit of pain from her fall but is planning to go to Aberdeen for Christmas. Ho, hum. Watched a bit of TV in the evening (no surprise there). Put rubbish out and went to bed. 

Tuesday – Cool. Small amounts of rain. Dot and I drove out to Catfield school to pick up sugar. On the way had a look at how they were progressing with dualling the A47. Quite a lot of sugar to pick up from the school, and on the way home we called in at the surgery to pick up some specimen jars (unrelated). Later in the day we tidied up the house, and then Harriet and her boyfriend Paul called, but halfway through I had to take a call from Nikki, who needed some advice. Had quite a long chat, and she is popping round again in a couple of days’ time. In the evening we both cooked the meal and watched an episode of Edge of Darkness, an oldish thriller.  Very good so far. Scotland beat Denmark 4-2 in time added to qualify for World Cup. Kenny McLean, the Norwich skipper, scored from near the halfway line to wrap it up. We watched David’s progress across the Atlantic until he was safely home. 

Remembrance Sunday seemed quite mild and dry, but I didn’t go out because I was feeling lousy. Got up quite late and had a bath, but then lay down again. Eventually wrote blog and an e-mail or two. Had a light lunch and watched quite a bit of TV. Gradually improved. Found my head test results online which seemed to indicate I didn’t have anything serious. But who knows? Watched football (loss by Liverpool) and various other things like Grand Designs and University Challenge, plus the next episode of Trigger Point. Before that, cooked salmon and cleared dishes away. Meanwhile David is in England and staying with Lorraine at Bromley. 

Monday – Miserable day. Heavily overcast with quite a bit of rain. In bed most of day, feeling down. At least I’ve stopped shivering, but have headache and now a cough! Signs of UTI too. Am drinking water. Dot is looking after me: she had to put bins out. Had a bath in afternoon and watched a bit of TV. David is now with Oliver in London. Got up a bit in evening to watch final episode of Trigger Point – very good. 

Tuesday – Weather slightly better. Some blue sky, but rain in the evening. Still felt pretty bad in the morning and stayed in bed while Bridget cleaned. Got up and had lunch with Dot, but then went back to bed while Dot went to Morrisons. Mike Read rang about Graham Wright’s funeral, and I said I’d take him if I was well enough. Helped Dot unpack food, then had another lie-down. Felt better in evening and helped cook meal. Ate it together and watched TV for much of evening, including documentary on Rhodes that brought back memories for Dot. David is at Peterborough for his conference. Watched him approach Norman Cross on A1(M) and sent message, but it wasn’t delivered. Earlier Barry came round and did a little painting, while I retreated upstairs!

Wednesday – Variable weather. Some rain. Not too cold. Woke up early feeling awful but took paracetamol and improved. Later had a bath and watched a little TV. Barry came back and finished the painting, then had a cup of tea with us. Put some new photos of family in frames, which was quite tricky as far as size was concerned. Wrote a couple of pieces for Diderot – one on my first journey to America and another on a really nice pic of my parents and me. Took some more paracetamol and gradually felt better, though tired. Went over to meet David at the station (he arrived about 7.15), while Dot made really nice supper of salmon and roast potatoes, plus fruit and cake. Had chat as we ate, and he went to bed early. We followed soon after. Again, very low on steps. Dot has pain in her back – probably muscular. 

Thursday – Lovely day – not too cold and mainly sunny. Feeling groggy at first: took two doses of paracetamol, then decided to go on antibiotics, which I was prescribed some time ago. Felt better having made the decision, but still had mild headache.  Dot and I went up to St Stephen’s on bus (long wait) and into Apple, where we were put into queue to buy her new iPhone. Went and had lunch at Costa, returned at 2pm, about the same time that David got there. He had been working (UK colleagues realised he was in the country and available). 

She bought the phone – young man and woman very helpful – plus a cover for it and a new protection sheet for my phone. Took a while. Then Dot and I walked home via Boots while David took a look around town. Chat with Mark as we arrived. Later cooked chilli con carne for three. Dot added fruit salad (afterwards, not together). We all watched a great episode of Outnumbered where no-one can get through on the phone, then after a chat, went to bed early. I took my second antibiotic tablet. Feeling a bit better. Started raining late evening – severe rain warning for tomorrow. 

Tuesday, November 4 – weather quite pleasant. Up fairly early to drive to Archant Pensioners’ Breakfast. Lot of ordinary (ie non-Archant) people there: so had to wait for eggs and mushrooms. They were also short of coffee. Lot of pensioners there too, including Robin, Shelagh and Tricia. Also present Peter Franzen and others. Quite late home. Decided to clear up some leaves at home – bit of a mistake, because I was exhausted afterwards. Lay down and eventually had a bath while Dot went up to Jarrolds open evening. On the way she fell over, but not badly, and while in the city ran into Jude (Sayer) and later Kim, who was on her way home from a funeral.  She bought cards and gifts and got home about 9pm, by which time I was feeling better. We watched Murder before Evensong and then went to bed. Fewer than 3000 steps. 

Wednesday – Officially mild, but with an argumentative wind. Drove Dot to her violin lesson in the morning and then walked up to post a wedding card to Holly and Rich.  They are marrying on Saturday. During lunch got a call from the surgery about reviewing my medication. Think it went ok, despite my refusal to take blood thinner which I believe caused a problem which led to cystoscopy. Later Dot dropped me at hospital for a CT scan, which went well – that is, it was very quick and painless. No results of course. Walked to bus after sheltering from shower in the car park. Bit of a slow run because of road works: went to Tombland (it was No 11) and walked home through Close. Met Michael and Margaret in Aspland Road and had a chat: they seem disgustingly well. Had pizza for supper, and Dot went with Janet to orchestra rehearsal. Bonfire night but cloudy: fireworks in distance but no sign of promised super moon. When Dot got back we watched the first episode of a new series of Shetland. 

Thursday – Alarm set for 7.30 – got tea. Dot got going quickly, and even more remarkably, Anne arrived early. They caught the 9.30 train and arrived in London about 11.15. Meanwhile I made much slower progress and had a bath. Eventually I put some slides on my computer and made a jelly. Had mysterious message about possible fraud that I thought was a scam – even after consulting with Dot on the phone – but it turned out she had had her purse stolen, together with four credit cards. She did not discover this until she had got home – I had met them at the station at about 10.30. Chaos ensued: the thief had taken £250 + £100 from a Barclaycard account and the same from M&S. Eventually managed to contact Barclays and cancelled both of their cards. By morning had also reached M&S and John Lewis; so now awaiting new cards. Neither of us slept very well, but other than that Dot had a really good day in London, with afternoon tea at The Ivy on King’s Road. Probably. 

Friday – Still quite mild and dry. Woke late and sorted out John Lewis after Dot had problem contacting them initially. Felt tired most of day but better in the evening. Between them Jon and Mark have got rid of some of the remaining leaves. Answered a question on Diderot and showed Dot the pictures I had transferred from slides yesterday. Went to Morrisons about 4pm, which seems like a good time, because not many people there. Mark had gone earlier and it was packed. Street meet with Des, Chris, Matt, Jon, Mary…. Left a little early to cook pies for our supper. Bed early – just managed 4000. 

Saturday – Pretty mild and dry. Busy day: had a bath, then Annette arrived just before lunch by car (instead of bus/train as anticipated), and after some talk with Dot she and I set off for Fakenham. Traffic very bad and couldn’t park at first; so around 20 minutes late for Caroline Gilfillan memorial, which turned out to be really good. Lots of nice food and a surprising number of people I knew – eg Rob and Penny Knee, Dave and Kay Riggs, Su Lee (not in a good state healthwise), James and Ann Knox Whittet, Dave and Liz Radley and others known only by sight. Plus of course Alex Grose (Su’s daughter) who organised it with her sister. Spoke to all. Good songs from a couple of young lads, plus a video of Caroline performing. Among other things.

Annette and I left about 5 and had a good journey, arriving home at about 5.45. Dot had been at Carrow Road – saw City lose 2-1 to Leicester, setting a new record for run of home losses, leading to sacking of manager not long after wards. After Annette had left, Dot and I drove to Stoke Holy Cross for bonfire party at John Digby and Tara’s new house in Poringland Road. We were the only members of Street Meet to make it – Des and Chris had a cold and others had different reasons.

Really nice evening – John and Tara and others very welcoming. That was after we found the house – unbelievably there was a 41 on each side of the road (road name change) and it took a while to find the right one. Dot rang door bell on wrong one: lady very kindly gave directions. Spoke to John’s oldest daughter Isabella, who is doing Eng Lit and Philosophy at Durham. Lovely bonfire, setting and good food, though they had said there wouldn’t be much. Home about 9.45pm. Meanwhile David was on his way to the airport. 

Thursday, October 30 – Dry and quite pleasant. Blue sky over Cringleford in the morning, when I dropped Dot at the hospital for a mouth appointment. She has a small polyp which will eventually be cut out. I went and parked by the Willow Centre after popping into Tesco express, then walked around for about 20 minutes. Very pleasant. After I picked her up we went into Tescos again and bought some flowers for Mary – our next port of call, mainly because Neville has had a stroke and is struggling a bit. Happily he was at his best today, according to Mary. Stayed for a while then drove home for lunch.

Afterwards rang Ray and, after Dot and I had a lie down, he rang back to say we could go round at 3.30 – which is what we did. He didn’t seem too bad, though of course his legs are a problem for him. Home around 5pm and I cooked salmon a bit later. We were both feeling pretty tired (perhaps because of two early mornings in a row). Nevertheless we watched the first two episodes of the new Trigger Point, which is about bomb disposal and very well done. Dot lying down well before 11, which is most unusual. 

Friday – Dry but windy. Up a bit late. Caught bus to Unthank Road. Late, slow and lots of passengers; so arrived between 5 and 10 minutes late at Eleanor’s. Fortunately I had forewarned her. Her dog was no trouble. Had lengthy talk about Canada and New Zealand and (later) church developments. She gave us carrot soup plus bread rolls with cheese, ham and sausages. Oh, and wine  – which meant our alcohol total was way up for the day, because we had street meet later – after again having to wait for a bus.

Quite a few outside – Mark is home for six weeks, plus Des, Chris, Matt, Sam and (briefly) Joe, who then went trick or treating with Cleo. Angela still in Scotland. Much talk of Norwich restaurants.  Later had toast and watched a few things, including Murder before Evensong, which isn’t really very good. Don’t really like clergy assisting with murder investigations, because it would never happen. 

Saturday – Bright and dry; not too cold. Rain in the evening. Bit windy from the west. Probably last decent day for a while. Walked with Dot to Carrow Road, where Norwich contrived to lose yet again – this time 2-0 to Hull. I walked home by river and was hot and tired when I got there. Lay down for a bit. Watched quite a lot of TV, including the first episode of the new Mick Herron series, Down Cemetery Road. Very good, as you might expect. Cooked salmon for late lunch (with baguette) and chilli con carne for evening meal. Did a hard sudoku and a few other puzzles. Sadly, Liverpool won (Villa played so badly in front of their goal that you suspected they wanted to lose), and Spurs lost at home to Chelsea. 

Sunday – Started with a bit of rain but became quite sunny and pleasant. David gave us a FaceTime call, and we talked about his upcoming visit, among other things. Sadly BlueJays narrowly failed to win World Series. Intended to go for walk at Sweet Briar marshes, but it was shut; so ended up at Earlham cemetery for a very pleasant walk. Visited my grandparents’ grave and then Phyllis’s. Had late lunch and watched a lot of TV, including football, Hamza wildlife programme and another episode of Trigger Point, which manages to be brilliant at the same time as impossible in the situations it constructs. Finished yesterday’s chilli. 

Monday – Dry and not cold, but a bit windy. Felt strange all day, but a bit better in the evening. Dot did a lot of cleaning and re-arranging, and as usual we watched too much TV, including football and Trigger Point. Cooked sausages and put out rubbish. Very little energy, but managed 4000 steps, nearly all indoors. Couple of entries in Diderot – Adelboden and Andrew in Northumberland. 

Rain at first but dry from mid-morning on Saturday, October 25. Strange day. Felt pretty ill a lot of the time, till I had a bath in late afternoon – during which David FaceTimed. Wrote most of an article on Jane Austen for Parish Pump. Dot went to Morrisons to stock up and then cooked sea bream. Did hardly any walking and just watched TV for most of evening – couple of documentaries on trains and Bulgaria, the end of Grand Ol Oprey (mediocre) and a bit of Match of the Day: Liverpool lost to Brentford and Chelsea to Sunderland. Norwich lost 2-1 to Swansea and are now bottom of the table. While Dot was out Nikki rang and we had quite a chat, which Dot  joined in with when she came in. Had e-mail  from David Cannon. Remembered to put clocks back. 

Sunday – Not feeling great, but ignored it. Leanne came round about 11.20 and stayed till 3, when Dot took her home. Very interesting conversation: she has some fascinating theories about life, the universe and everything. Is not sure space exists. Really nice woman and a good mother in difficult circumstances. When she left (and before she arrived) I put together my three Parish Pump articles – on Jane Austen, the Stone of Scone and Coronation Street. Not my choice, but turned out to be quite interesting. Don’t think I’ve ever seen an episode of Coronation Street. Cooked salmon, and we watched a bit of football and a very good wildlife programme. Elsewhere, Spurs beat Everton 3-0 and Aston Villa beat Man City.  Very few steps. 

Monday – Felt pretty well. Mainly dry and not too cold, though windy. Drove car in for service and MOT. All went smoothly , except for slight oil leak, probably from gear box, that we think they’ve fixed. Got bus back from opposite garage to Tombland, then walked home and had a bath. Too much info about baths? Started reading Exit Music by Ian Rankin. After lunch caught up on computer and eventually spoke to garage again before heading up there. Despite intensive research I got the 38 from Tombland, which only took me as far as the Boundary. Still, I’m sure the walk did me good.  Bit of delay picking up car, but home well before 5pm. Over 7000 steps today. Dot cooked lovely chicken dish and blueberry/blackberry crumble. Watched football and another episode of Riot Women, which is very well written (and acted). 

Tuesday – Windy, but some sun. Dot drove to pick up Joyce and take her to meet Sandra in North Walsham. They had lunch again in the garden centre there after negotiating pretty horrendous traffic at both ends. I did some sorting out of files , largely concerning the car, and chose the compline for our Cake and Compline in the evening. Vicky and Phil away, but the Archers, Judy and Claire all came, and it went well, with Dot’s chocolate cake an outstanding feature. DA said it was the best he could remember eating. Prunella Scales died today; so watched a bonus edition of Fawlty Towers before going to bed. 

Wednesday – Rather gloomy with some rain. Got up early to drive with Dot to Un Café at Beeston to meet Brian and Tricia for breakfast at 9.30, which was very good: I had egg, sausage and mushrooms. I made the mistake of taking my coat off while eating (I also had an apple tea), and was cold for the rest of the day, especially after going to Morrisons, which was freezing. Got some green tea at a new Barrett and Holland section, which may not survive because it’s so expensive compared with the rest of the shop.

Felt quite fragile after getting home and tried to sleep, but was still cold. Eventually I found that Bridget (who was cleaning when we got home) had left the bedroom and bathroom windows open. Later had some tea and cake and watched the end of Blue Lights, about police in Ireland, which was really excellent. Had egg and avocado on roast for tea, then Dot left with Janet and Nova for orchestra rehearsal, by which time I was feeling better. I also have an appointment for a head scan at the hospital next Wednesday, which is sooner than I thought. Don’t know if that’s good. Cleared up and had a bath, after which I was feeling hot. You can’t win. Ended evening by watching last episode of current series of Slow Horses. Brilliant as always. 

Monday, October 20 – Mainly rain. Usual cold symptoms had gone, but I had a headache all morning. Managed a bath, though (too much information about baths?). Very quiet day. Later in the afternoon Dot went to Morrisons to buy something for Fred and Sue when we visit tomorrow (I hope). I caught up with computer stuff. Got amessage from Amy thanking us for presents and card, and a series of photos showing her life – presumably from David. Can’t believe she’s 21. Sent her poems I’d written in Canada…

Naked Wines delivered about lunchtime. Put out rubbish and managed to download an NHS app that works. (There are all sorts of different kinds.) Watched quite a bit of TV. 

Tuesday – Cloudy, but dry. Bad night  – as usual when I have an early appointment. Drove up to surgery by just after 9am to see Dr Victoria Bellamy at 9.20. She was excellent – very thorough – and has put me in for a head scan. Drove out to Beeston Regis late morning to meet Fred and Sue.  We walked with them to a pub on the outskirts of Sheringham, where we had a meal (scampi in my case). Then we walked back by a slightly different route. Lot of reminiscing. Eventually left just before 5pm  –  it was raining in Norwich. Miraculously Amy’s package arrived at the “wrong” address and she picked it up. But my pending payment disappeared from my Barclaycard account; presumably they’ll get in touch; I have sent a couple of e-mails off. Had a very light supper while Norwich lost again to slip into the relegation spots. Apparently they played quite well but just can’t score. During half time Amy FaceTimed us and we had a long chat (she also sent us some photographs of her party! ) Afterwards watched another episode of Murder before Evensong. it ‘s not bad, but then I don’t suppose it’s meant to be. 

Wednesday – Quite pleasant weather; rain late evening. Felt quite ill in early part of the day – actual pain in stomach. But it went by evening.  At lunchtime Dot and I walked down by riverside path, now extended almost to rail bridge. Nearly 7000 steps today. Dot did a lot of practising, but we watched an episode of Blue Lights and after she came back from orchestra the latest Slow Horses. Always brilliant. Replied to letter from Karen Smyth, who is now housebound, about a Paston walk experiment she wanted me to take part in. But it’s when David and Oliver will be here – rather relieved!

Dot said rehearsal hall was cold. No doubt some idiot was trying to save heating money by pretending it was still summer. Leanne was supposed to come and see us today, but she cracked a front tooth and had to go to the dentist. Excitement at lunchtime when road was full of police, apparently arresting someone lower down for blackmail. Dogs, forensics etc – all appeared on our WhatsApp group! As we walked out Charlie (Des and Chris’s grandson) waved from window and apparently said: “Hello, Dot.” He’s 2 tomorrow. 

Thursday – Wet and windy. Storm Benjamin, or Ben, as his friends know him. Much heralded on forecast, but absolutely nothing on national or local news about its effects, which presumably means it couldn’t be blamed on climate change. I drove Dot up to Anna’s for her violin lesson and then did quite a lot of indoor walking. Rang garage to check that I could discuss a protection deal on Monday (it’s a way of paying for work monthly over two years, with some other benefits). Meanwhile my payment for Amy’s present has now gone through. Not sure how that happened, but I’m glad it did. Picked up Dot after long session, said hello to Anna and then Dot and I watched international football till Bridget arrived to do cleaning. Bridget then left car while having anniversary meal with her husband at Gem. Meanwhile we had a second lot of chilli and watched a murder puzzle drama, Grand Designs and before going to bed a particularly brilliant episode of Outnumbered. 

Friday – Still windy, but dry. Linda came round to cut our hair, and as usual I had a bath afterwards. In the afternoon Dot went into the city with Anne and visited the travel agent, as well as buying a couple of tops. Got back just in time for street meet, but the only person joining us was Matt. We eventually went into his house (Angela is in Scotland) and had a look around as well as listening to some music – although the latter was not to his satisfaction because of a problem with the turntable. Earlier I rang Ray and got a call from Joy Wright, whose husband Graham has just died. I used to play chess with him, and Joy worked in the library at Eastern Counties Newspapers. 

Wednesday – Had a bath; then Dot drove me up to the hospital for my ultrasound. Got called as soon as I got there – well over ten minutes early. Pretty thorough scan, but nothing new. Apparently my liver is higher up in the body than normal and therefore hard to see behind my ribs. Anticyclonic gloom persisting; so I walked up to the UEA and caught the second bus, which took quarter of an hour to leave the bus stop. Quick journey after that. Dot practising hard on violin. Caught up with e-mails eventually. Cooked meal, and then Dot drove herself (and Nova) to orchestra rehearsal because Janet couldn’t come. On her return we watched latest episode of Slow Horses. Wednesday treat. Earlier Fred rang and we arranged to meet next Tuesday. 

Thursday – Mainly cloudy again. Drove Dot up to get her pills from chemist. For some reason wasn’t feeling great most of day: delicate stomach. Don’t know why. Had bath later and read quite a bit. After lunch helped Dot in garden by trimming ivy, and managed to detach dead ivy from wall to left of front door. David rang about arrangements for his visit, and we “clarified” position about Amy’s presents. Chrissy went by train to Kingston to see Sophie. Bridget came round to clean, and later her husband popped down to get a lift home from her. Cooked salmon and watched some TV. Attempted to purchase present for Amy but inserted wrong shipping address and wrong billing address too. Trying to cancel. 

Friday – Still overcast. Quite chilly – wore third layer. Anne came round late morning as I was looking through old pictures with Diderot in mind. We all had drink and chat. Then (after she left) a rather hurried lunch before driving to Christ Church for the last Talk at Two  – this one by D J Taylor about Mary Mann, a forgotten Norfolk writer. Excellent talk. Spoke to him and his wife, Rachel Hore, afterwards – I’d done some stuff with her at UEA many years ago, and she remembered me. So did he, which is worrying. Afterwards drove to Morrisons to stock up. Not many people about. Des and Chris away, as was Mark, and no sign of Jon or Ciara; so thought street meet might be non-event, but it was very good: Matt and Angela, Mary, Joe and Sam all came out despite gloomy weather. Cooked pies and discovered at end of evening that my lansoprazole was still performing a useful function. I got acid reflux and remembered I hadn’t taken it this morning. 

Saturday – Cloudy. Had a bath and we caught the bus up to Red Lion Street, then walked to St Giles, where we went to a concert for Ukraine in the Salvation Army Citadel. Very good – all Mozart. Met quite a few friends but missed Mary next door and Nikki, largely because we were upstairs and they were down. Did meet Adrian O’dell and his wife, who was not too well, various members of Sillars and Carrie, Judy, Bridget and David among others – plus Eleanor who was passing by on the other side on her way to football. Dot and I walked home via The Close, where we bought croissant and pain au chocolat, then at them and a bit more before Dot walked to Carrow Road. I had a rest. Norwich lost 1-0 to Bristol City, continuing their bad run. In the evening watched all four episodes of The Intruder, a French noir that was excellent. 

Sunday – Clear morning with sun, but rain began in mid-afternoon which has continued. I have managed to get what seems to be a cold, which is very annoying. Went out for walk, though. David FaceTimed and we had a chat about Andy Burnham, among other things. Have been in touch with Amy about her present: no news from company; so I sent her a book and some chocolates and put some cash in her account. Dot and I also sent her an e-card. Had a lie-down late afternoon then cooked supper with help from Dot. Watched some football and other TV but I came to bed early because TV was hurting my eye (affected by cold). Sadly Spurs lost, but on the plus side, so did Liverpool.