Monthly Archives: June 2009

29 June 2009

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Warm has become hot, with occasional rain. This morning it is sunny, and Dot is about to go off to Hethersett to see her aunt and cousin. I had a bad night and am feeling pretty tired. The last three days have been full: on Friday and Saturday we were at St Luke’s all day as volunteers for the Martin Laird visit. Caught a bit of what he said, and liked it. Yesterday I led the service at St Augustine’s and fitted a bell in the loo, as requested by an occasional visitor who is disabled. I can foresee problems involving intrigued toddlers and am going to write a note to go with it – not that that will avoid the toddler problem: I suppose it could make it worse. In the afternoon Fred and Sue came round for tea. They were in Norfolk for the marriage of his sister Marjorie to Pat. We spent a stimulating afternoon together, starting with a cup of tea in the garden (pictured: the weather was warm enough even for me) and ending with a sort of high tea. As a result the pizza at Ambient Wonder  in the evening was a step too far, and I had only the slimmest slice before realising that I really, really wasn’t hungry.

25 June 2009

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Dot emerging from Baconsthorpe Castle, one of Norfolk’s great undiscovered ruins. Undiscovered by me, that is.

Today has been frustrating. I haven’t been able to get down to anything useful, largely because I keep putting off things I ought to do. Dot has had a busy day, with too many appointments to mention. She is now at Gillingham, or possibly on her way back. Earlier, while she was at a Diocesan House reception, I was helping to prepare St Luke’s for the visit of Martin Laird tomorrow and Saturday. Picked up some stuff from St Augustine’s with Howard and put some labels together with Margaret after long chat with Steve Fiske about his visit to Download, which I think is a music festival.

Last night saw Habeas Corpus with Dot at the Maddermarket. Brilliant Alan Bennett play, splendidly acted: really enjoyable with a very funny script. Weather very warm last two days.

24 June 2009

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Dot and I decided to take a day off yesterday and, after leaving the MX5 to be MOT-tested, we went to Blakeney for lunch at the Manor Hotel (fried whitebait for me), then walked out along the quay before moving on to Cley, where we parked at the visitor centre and walked out to the hides. Very chill wind blowing directly into the hide, but if you could get out of the wind, it was a beautifully sunny and warm day. Got out of the wind for a while among the reeds, and tried to identify a few flowers and birds. While we were briefly in the hide, a birder kindly let us look through his new bit of kit and we saw a spoonbill and a redshank, which I believe are birds. From there to Cley Green, a beautifully green and quiet spot about a mile inland, with an excellent pub and outstandingly large church, which had not only bats but what appeared to be house martins nesting in the porch. Or church martins. Of course they could have been spoonbills or redshanks. (Dot is pictured in the pub garden, quietly pleased.)

Took a look at a beautiful slate carving in the memorial garden by Philippa, who I met at the Twenty Group party. It was in memory of former Cathedral Dean Alan Webster, who I noticed planted a tree on the riverside walk in 1972. Have written a poem partly inspired by memorials, trees, slate and the passing of time.

Eight at Tuesday Group last night, and it was warm enough to eat outside. Very sheltered in the back garden. Dot has now departed for Dickleburgh, to visit a school there. I have received the paperwork for my operation and discovered it was for a slightly different operation. I checked, and all is OK.

By the way, I lost my chess game on Monday. Misplayed the opening, and never recovered. Last of the season: I like to finish on a low note.

22 June 2009

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Business going well: Philosophy4Children partners Barbara and Dot are pictured getting down to some serious planning in the kitchen. On the same day (last Tuesday) I went to the Voicing Visions exhibition private view at Wymondham, where it was displayed in the picturesque Becket’s Chapel and looked striking. Not many poets there, and I knew very few people. Spoke to poet Hilary Mellon for a while, then, briefly, sculptor Ann Richardson. Left early to get back to Tuesday Group meeting: only two people made it – Matt and Bridget. Dot experimented with side of salmon. Good result.

Saw the consultant on Wednesday, and he was very reassuring. Got in more or less all I wanted to ask and came away feeling quite happy, though I was distracted enough to drive over a kerb in the car park. Later discovered the operation will be more expensive than I thought, but decided to go ahead. Now have a date of July 9, which is again longer away than I’d hoped, but hopefully early enough to recover for the holiday in Scotland starting at the end of the following week. Mr Sethia said recovery should be very quick. From the operation, not the holiday.

Went to another art exhibition private view on Thursday – this time the Norfolk and Norwich Art Circle, at the Cathedral. Got ticket from Dot’s friend Sandra, a former head teacher. Hilary Mellon and David Holgate were there; strangely enough they knew hardly anyone and we spent some time chatting. Also saw “my” artist Sandra and her husband, and Dot accosted the Bishop, who not only remembered her but seemed to remember me too, which is pretty amazing. We are very pro-Bishop. The pictures weren’t bad, but I think the quality at the Twenty Group was higher generally. Of course, they didn’t have the Bishop. Or the Cathedral.

Dot had a big day on Friday – giving a couple of talks to a conference of prospective head teachers at Diocesan House. The rehearsal went well, and apparently so did the real thing. She got excellent feedback. She can be really inspirational when she gets going. Or even when she doesn’t.

On Saturday we picked up the real salmon, which turned out to be about three times as big as the rehearsal one on Tuesday. Bit of a problem (a) getting it home (b) getting it in the stove (c) getting it to church. Salmon are notoriously reluctant to go to church, preferring to swim against the stream. But it went down really well after the grand St Augustine’s get-together service on Sunday, which was again a big success. People had been invited from the various groups attached to the Norwich Christian Meditation Centre, and there must have been about 100 there, most of whom stayed behind for food and talk afterwards. One of them was Beryl, who we used to go to Paston with about 20 years ago and hadn’t seen since. Spent a great deal of time washing up, then went to see Jessie. Roger and Jude were there: first time we’d met Jude. Liked her very much: closer to our age than his, but very young and lively. Seems like a lot of fun. While we were there David rang to wish me a Happy Father’s Day!

Today took back borrowed wine glasses to Sainsbury’s and bought some fruit. Watched Pakistan slaughter Sri Lanka in final of world 20-overs competition, and England women win comfortably against New Zealand (recorded, of course). Then Dot went off to Gillingham for a governors’ meeting, and I am thinking of walking up to the chemist’s to pick up some pills. Weather over the past few days has been quite warm but showery, with plenty of cloud cover. But it did feel really warm for a moment or two in North Walsham cemetery yesterday.

16 June 2009

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Dot and Dave Evetts at or near the summit of a minor peak on Wiveton Downs, near Blakeney. About 145ft, and in case this does not impress you, it is a higher than a blue whale standing on its tail. Or its head. See earlier post for more details of this impressive walk.

England are now out of the world 20-over cricket cup, having allowed West Indies to score 80 in nine overs to win by the ridiculous Duckworth-Lewis method. Our captain, on being asked whether he had considered the weather forecast when he chose to bat, replied: “Certainly not.” My question is “Why on earth not?” It’s well known that the second team to bat has an advantage under Duckworth-Lewis, and it was pretty obvious that it was going to rain. England didn’t really impress, even when beating India.

We had a large amount of rain last night, and I had to go out in it to play chess. Clarification: I wasn’t actually playing chess in the rain, but I had to get through the rain to reach the venue. In the end I managed to draw after winning a piece for two pawns and failing to preserve the advantage. Rain easing off on the way home, but I still got wet.

I’m seeing the consultant privately tomorrow to clarify certain points about the operation I shall be having shortly. It’s hard to get over all you want to say during the ten-minute clinic slot, particularly when the guy you’re talking to hasn’t had time to read the notes (understandably). I understand it’s probably a cysto-urethroscopy, which has got to be impressive, hasn’t it?

Went for a curry with the Savignys on Sunday evening, after taking complete control of the service at St Augustine’s in the morning. Met at the King’s Head as usual and went on to the wonderful Ali Tandoori’s for (in my case) a chicken bhuna and mushroom bhaji. Excellent evening.

13 June 2009

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This time last year I was in hospital, emerging from a very painful post-operative three days. Now I’m waiting for news of when I can have another operation. Bit disappointing, but so many people are worse off that I think I can put up with it. Of course I won’t say that if I die during it. For obvious reasons. It’s actually a much smaller deal and shouldn’t be too much trouble.

Today I visited Welborne Arts Festival – a great event in a little village not far out of Norwich – to see how they had presented the Norwich 20 Group’s Voicing Visions exhibition. Answer: very well. Not everything made it into the tent, but I was more than happy to see that three of my four poems did – and, naturally, three of my four artists’ pictures. The weather was sunny and warm, with forecast showers not materialising, and there was plenty going on. Lots of art, from the very good to the mediocre; sculpture; hazel-weaving; clowns; horses; and an interview with an author. Plus some excellent music from Axel Loughrey (pictured, singing blues, folk and indie with a touch of Velvet Underground); Nappertandy (Irish duo singing and playing traditional Celtic tunes); and Taillevent (a nine-strong group from Brittany who sang Breton maritime songs). Also a very nice atmosphere, and once I again I met the guy who really, really knows me well and I can’t place at all. Spent three hours there and ate a cheese baguette.

Dot meanwhile was in the city with Anne and came home with some excellent cherries from the market, plus a butter dish and some new shoes. Yesterday she visited two schools near the coast and ended up at Gorleston instead of Bradwell. I was about to give her directions to get back when the school sent out the secretary to retrieve her. I spent the day writing my sermon for tomorrow, but also walked to the river bank behind Carrow Road to see if any work was being done on clearing a path. There isn’t. It’s all pretty disgusting: a huge piece of waste ground on which coaches are parked and where people appear to be dumping anything they fancy. Or don’t fancy, I suppose. Pity. It could so easily be turned into a pleasant riverside path.

11 June 2009

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Bit more than a hiatus there: more of a huge gap. Originally caused by the absence of my computer, which has had its logic board replaced under guarantee by an excellent Norwich outfit called Bite, but then exacerbated (or lengthened) by the revelation from my son that Yahoo 360 is shutting down on July 12 – my birthday. How appropriate. Happily he has the expertise to transfer the whole thing to a new blog site called WordPress, where it will eventually be resurrected. Meanwhile…

Dot has been very busy over the past couple of weeks visiting schools in her DSSO role and today is in Hertfordshire on a research trip (I choose my words carefully) organised by the Norfolk Association for Primary Head Teachers. I had to deliver her to Thickthorn services at 7.30am. Rain bucketed down on the way there, but eased off when we arrived. David is going to create a website for said NAfPHT and was in Norwich yesterday afternoon to chat with Dot and Sue Eagle about it. We had a rather nice lunch, and David sorted out a message that kept appearing on my computer. Good to see him.

We have also passed through a good DCC meeting and an excellent Ambient Wonder organised by Matthew and including a barbecue, which we managed to get through shortly before a torrential downpour put it out quite thoroughly. Perfect, really.

The other major event of the past few days had been our weekend at Blakeney with the Evetts and friends: this year’s reunion, once again at the Manor Hotel. The forecast was not good, but the actual weather was much better, and we managed a five-and-a-half-mile walk on the Saturday, up to Wiveton Downs and returning across the fields to the coast path between Blakeney and Morston. The picture was taken on a minor summit at Wiveton Downs – and I do mean minor. Dot, Julia and Dave in triumphant mood. Food at the hotel was generally good without being spectacular, and we introduced Julia and Dave to the amazing Cookie’s at Salthouse, which I think went down quite well. On the Sunday Dot and I returned to Norwich via Baconsthorpe Castle, which was a bit of a revelation: an unheralded but extensive and picturesque Tudor ruin, together with lake, at the end of a farm track which, once the foliage grows a little longer, will be completely unsignposted. At present the sign is just visible from one direction only. Excellent: keep it secret, I say.

On Tuesday Dot and I found a couple of spare hours to respond to the kind invitation of Ruthli Losh-Atkinson (one of my two collaborative artists in the Twenty Group) and her husband Douglas to tea and biscuits, plus a tour of their house and garden. Both of them are incredibly creative, and the house and garden reflect this: the former is absolutely full of paintings and sculpture; the latter is perfectly organised, yielding a big variety of vegetables and fruit. Apparently they have two large freezers. And motor cycles.

10pm: Dot now back from research trip. Collected her from Thickthorn after visit to hospital, during which I was told I needed another operation, though a much smaller one. However, it will be under anaesthetic and will require a night in hospital. Apparently I probably have a problem with the neck of my bladder. Or, possibly, something else. They will see when they get in there. Not looking forward to it, but I am looking forward to something being done, as the last few weeks haven’t been much fun. As it’s urgent, the NHS should be able to do it within 4-6 weeks (I daren’t ask how long it would take if it wasn’t urgent), so I am asking about getting it done privately. I don’t want it to interfere with our holiday in Scotland or my trip to Hull. At present I’m due for a final pre-op assessment (some of it was done today) on June 29, but events could overtake that.

Now I’m going to bed. Haven’t had enough sleep the last few days. I should of course have mentioned that in the midst of all this, my aunt Vi died at the age of 93. It was great that we managed to get out there and see her in 2007, and she had been very ill recently. She died peacefully, I think. Sent flowers to South Africa. Isn’t Interflora wonderful?