Monthly Archives: January 2006

31 January 2006

Tiring day yesterday: went with Annette to Lowestoft to take down the pictures and removed the Poetry Vending Machine from the Warehouse. Then played on Board Four against Norfolk and Norwich A and had a really good win. Today I’ve been in – rather frustrating, though I wrote a bit, but spent far too long trying to set up Dot’s printer. They seem to specialise in telling you all the things you don’t need to know, and nothing you do.

The photograph is the wedding of my Aunt Thelma – my mother’s younger sister – and Roy Howard, the Robert-Mitchum lookalike. I was always a big Robert Mitchum fan, so I couldn’t help liking Roy. I always remember him courting Thelma, coming round to her parents’ house at 34 Hall Road, Norwich (now demolished). There used to be a butcher’s shop next door – now a row of maisonettes.

I don’t know most of the people in the picture – Roy’s relations. I think it was taken at St Peter Mancroft Church, and we had the reception at a place in St Stephen’s, upstairs.  The people I do know are on the right: my mother, looking very smart,  is standing with me (far right) and my two brothers, Andrew and Philip, also on their best behaviour.  Next to my mother is my Aunt Olive (mother’s sister), with her husband Ted. Nearby are my mother’s father, looking quite perky at the back, and near the front, her mother. They are Frederick and Rosa Brown.

28 January 2006

There she is again – Dorothy, I mean, far left, bridesmaid at the wedding of her twin, Ken, to Eve Barber. Their brother Paul is also there – presumably best man – and as far as I know the other two adults in the picture are Eve’s parents. The child may be her sister. Ken and Eve were always very friendly. As a child I was struck by how close to each other they seemed to be, constantly touching each other. She was very sweet and quite shy. I was frequently round their house at  Meadowbrook Close, Norwich, playing with their son Adrian – now sadly dead. Their daughter Barbara is also a lovely woman and lives with her husband Roy at Reepham.

Today is sunny but cold and we’re awaiting the arrival of our two grandchildren and their parents for the weekend.

27 January 2006

My Aunt Dorothy died three days ago. She was the twin of Ken and one of the nicest people you could meet. Aged 90, she had suffered from memory loss for a long time and eventually refused food, dying peacefully.

In the photograph she is in the middle, between her mother and my mother. Her full name was Dorothea Rosa Lenton. She never married, spending much of her life looking after her mother at their home in Hall Road, Norwich, following the death of her father in the mid-50s. Outside her home, she made the biggest impact at Norwich School – then a boarding school –  where she was a dearly-loved matron for many years.  I was very fond of her. I don’t think she had an unkind bone in her body.

Her death leaves only two of her seven siblings left alive – Kathleen and Paul, both in their 80s and both living in Norwich.

PS  Since writing this I’ve discovered that the picture was taken at the wedding of Jonathan and Dorothy (Jonathan is my cousin) in 1960.

Dorothy was the inspiration for this poem, which I wrote a few years ago after visiting her at Coltishall Hall Residential Home. She later moved to Cringleford.

COLTISHALL HALL

Your angel
has a fine time of it
standing at your corner room
mixing his holiness
with yours

while the winter sun
blazes low beyond the gate
lighting garden
and tree

I feel him there
filling your room and beyond
changing
the nature of things
through his presence

My angel
greets him wryly
like one who draws
the short straw

remembers the hills I fall off
the desires
the boat
the dark water

sighs, then smiles
when he sees me slip
my fingers through
your angel

26 January 2006

Another hiatus there, but I’ve been ill. The day before I was ill I led this yomp around Ketteringham, just outside Norwich. The picture is of me a week before, scouting it out. On the actual day (Jan 16) the weather had retreated into normal English winter again: it drizzled for much of the time and was exceedingly grey and bleak, as well as cold.

Still, we enjoyed it – especially the drink at the Red Lion in Eaton afterwards. Dot turned up for that, having given the walk a miss. But we were six: myself, globetrotter Brian Caldecott, professional rambler Liz Parker, author Bruce Robinson, sub-editor Mark Leslie, and diarist Robin “H” Limmer. We started at Ketteringham village hall car park by kind permission of Mrs Saul, took the road east to the monument at the Fiveways and continued in the same direction down a bridleway that was part of the Upper Tas Valley Walk, then south across fields to Lower East Carleton. From there we turned right on to the road west, and at the T-junction crossed on to the field, following paths, mainly across open fields, to East Carleton proper. Here we took the B road west to Lone Cottage, where we struck out slightly west of north across the fields. At the road we turned right and walked to Ketteringham Church, where we had lunch. From there it was a short walk north through woods and across a couple of fields back to the centre of Ketteringham and the cars.

Felt quite invigorated, in a wet sort of way, and prepared for my prostate biopsy the following day. This was relatively painless, and I felt quite well enough to visit my aunt Josephone (90) afterwards, as well as going out for the usual Tuesday evening meal afterwards (Helen’s on this occasion). It was only when I got home from that that I began to feel bad, and had an uncomfortable night. Wednesday was not quite so severe, and I took some paracetamol and went out with Dot for a scheduled meal with Heather and Sam Savigny. But after that I just got worse – very fluey and aching, head and stomach feeling extremely odd. Struggled through a meeting of InPrint the following morning but then went to bed. Assumed it was biopsy-related and went to the doctor the next day for more antibiotics. He didn’t seem to think it was related, but didn’t really know. He gave me the antibiotics anyway (double strength).

Gradually improved later Saturday and made it to church on Sunday. Meanwhile, as I was feeling at my worst, I received the news that I did NOT have prostate cancer. Very odd receiving good news when you feel awful. Your heart wants to leap, but your body won’t let it.

13 January 2006

Speaking of cars, this the first recorded car in my family. You can just make out my father David in his beloved MG – picture taken by my mother Phyllis on the Nant-Gwynant Pass in Snowdonia. They also took it to Scotland on their honeymoon in about 1937. Other cars of his that I can remember are an early Vauxhall DPW 155, when we lived at 15 Brian Avenue, Norwich and I was about four. Then a Rover and finally a Lea Francis, which he had when he died in 1956.

My mother learned to drive in the early 60s and had two or three Morris 1000s (one at a time). Then a fairly primitive Vauxhall in which we went to Switzerland in 1971. She also had a Renault 5, which I liked a lot, and then later a Metro.  Possibly some others. I learned to drive in her Morris 1000, taught by a friend, David Green, and passed the test without having an official lesson. My wife and son did the same – both taught by me.

My first car was a black Ford Prefect, which I bought for about £100 from the Coomes – friends in London. I could just about service it, after being shown how by the husband of Diane Jones (so Mr Jones, then). She was Jim Douglas’ secretary on Christianity Today magazine in London – sadly died not long ago in Norfolk. The Ford Prefect also went to Switzerland.

We then moved on to an Austin 1100, which I bought from a garage in North London and which I suspect had been in a fairly serious accident. It tended to grind to a halt in wet wheather because of damp on the distributor. Once in Norwich I sold it for £70 and bought a white Fiat 500 for £700 from the Eagle Garage on Newmarket Road. It was a demonstrator. Very rudimentary vehicle which gradually fell apart: I just managed to get it to Pointers on Aylsham Road to pick up its replacement, a red Fiat 127. This was followed by a blue version of the same car, obtained from Woodland Car Sales a couple of years later. I was quite fond of both of them. We then moved upmarket slightly and got a rust-coloured Fiat Strada which was a very heavy vehicle. We swapped this fairly quickly for a Renault 21 –  a lovely car to drive, if not totally reliable. I remember the fuel pump going on the way down to Sussex. This car was “written off” in a slow-speed collision with a Volvo at the junction of Thorn Lane and Rouen Road in Norwich and replaced by a blue Fiat Tipo. This was around 1990.

I wasn’t too impressed with the Tipo – it seemed far too heavy for its size. But in the early 90s I was driving pool cars as part of my job, and one of them was a Mazda 323, with pop-up headlamps. This was such a great car that it was not long before I sold the Tipo and bought one – a red one, from Wrights on Cromer Road. A couple of years later I changed it for a green one, which I kept for many years and which I enjoyed enormously. But eventually it had to go and was replaced by a black 323 Sport at the end of 2002, when I retired.

In September 2004 we bought a black MX5 Euphonic for Dot, who was still working. She retired at the end of 2005; she still has the MX5, but we have now bought a new Mazda 3 Sport – this time blue and a saloon instead of a hatchback. It arrives in March.

11 January 2006

This is an up-to-the-minute, exclusive picture of me in a field, researching a yomp which I’m leading next Monday in the Ketteringham area. The path I’m on goes across the middle of a field and is barely marked. Round here they don’t seem keen to encourage you to walk across country. The picture was taken by Dot, my wife, with her new digital camera.  It was taken on Monday, when it was sunny and quite benign: it’s turned colder and soggier since. Not bad this afternoon, though.

Family history has receded slightly into the background over Christmas and New Year, but I’ll get back to it. Instead I bought a car today. Mazda 3 Sport. We take delivery on March 1.