Thursday 24th was cool but dry in the east. Felt less than 100% all day, but as usual best in the evening. Wrote my blog and then my sermon – more or less. Chose hymns for Sunday. Dot went to Morrisons. Had a Thursday version of street meet with newly returned Des and Chris, plus Ciara and John. Left early to cook bacon and egg meal, then we went to Cake and Compline at Judy’s, giving Phil a lift. Claire was already there but Vicky didn’t come – apparently she is off work with stress, which is not surprising, given the problems in her family. (In fact she went to the wrong house – ours; another “not the e-mail I usually use” problem.)

Friday – Bit warmer, especially towards end of day. Dry, some sun. Had bath and made some adjustments to sermon, then cleared up the study, sorting out loose papers and so on. Amy arrived on the 1318: I just had time to get out some cash. Forgot to buy pizzas. Had lunch with Amy – very nice chicken salad prepared by Dot. At some point during the afternoon I went to sit on kitchen chair and missed. Fortunately not injured. Problem with freezer: thought it had failed, but in fact I think a door was left open. Destroyed some food and Dot took the opportunity to clean shelves. Seems to have put itself right now.

Later watched Out of Africa (Amy’s choice) and it was good to see it again Had forgotten how good it was. Halfway through went out for street meet: Ciara, Phoebe, Matt, Angela, Sam (briefly) and of course me Dot and Amy, who seemed to have a good time, though she’s a bit under the weather. I was feeling fairly ropey as usual. As we went out, Dot drove to Morrisons to buy pizza that we’d forgotten. Ate that while watching second half of OOA. Ended evening by watching Beyond Paradise: went to sleep again and will have to rewatch to fill gaps. I went to bed about 11.30 : Dot is either talking to Amy or they are watching Derry Girls. 

Saturday – Dry, mixture of sun and cloud.  Woke up about a couple of hours before Dot and Amy, who was understandably very tired. We had a late breakfast of fruit, frangipane and croissant (toast in my case) and then Dot drove to Morrisons to get food for the evening, as Amy wasn’t keen to eat out. Didn’t leave for coast till after 3pm, then headed for Sea Palling. Parked in car park and walked on to and along the beach. The tide was coming in, but had quite a way to go. Walked a fair distance then came back over the dunes and on to the road.

Amy decided she’d like to go straight home rather than have a cup of coffee; we went vie Dot’s mum’s birthplace at Hempstead and then Happisburgh, where the erosion is about to eat up the car park. Had something to eat and then watched a couple of episodes of Derry Girls while we had a cup of tea, then had a meal involving smoked salmon, avocado and a few other things. Then  looked at some of Amy’s pictures on screen – got to know a few of her friends. Watched Austin, but Dot went to sleep. All of us pretty tired so went to bed at about 10.45. Earlier Norwich had achieved a 0-0 draw at Middlesbrough – played very well, apparently. 

Sunday – Dry, sunny. Quite warm. All went to church in the morning, and I did the sermon – apparently not as good as usual. Had a few refreshments, took Ray home – he wasn’t feeling at all well – and then proceeded to Cley, where we had lunch at the NWT place. I had a scone; the other two had quiches. Then drove to Blakeney, where we parked on the carnser and walked out as far as possible.

Then back, and Dot and I hod an ice cream. Walked in the other direction for a while out into the marsh. Saw oystercatcher. Dot bought loaf for over £5 from Two Magpies. Drove home via Sheringham, West Runton, Banningham etc.  After lie down for all three of us, cooked chili con carne and we watched Americas and Derry Girls. Spurs lost 5-1 to Liverpool, who won title. Aargh! 

Monday – Warm and dry. Amy was very tired; so we abandoned plans for early breakfast. Took her over to station in good time for 11.32 train. Felt very tired myself; so lay down for a bit (not in the station). After lunch checked the car tyres; as the alarm had gone off yesterday. But all was well – one front tyre slightly down. Then cut up tree Dot had uprooted from garden and fitted it into brown bin. Finished up mince and some bacon for evening meal. Watched Grace, which was pretty good, and the final episode of the chess. Not very impressive last game. Bins out. Amy in Southampton. Dot spent a long time looking out old pix to show Joyce and Sandra tomorrow. 

Good Friday – Dry with quite a cool wind but warmish sun. Jonathan rang to say Naomi was ill and so he had an extra ticket, which resulted in my going to the match with Dot. Met Phil and Joe outside, amazingly. Match was appalling, City going down 3-5 to Portsmouth, who are threatened with relegation. Very poor in all areas; don’t seem to have any desire to win.

Went out for street meet and were invited into Joe and Sam’s housewarming party. First part in garden; pretty cold. Had good conversations with Mary, John and Ciara and Sean, plus one or two others (mainly friends of J & S from Jubilee pub). Moved indoors, which was more comfortable. After about 9pm went home and had thin steak sandwiches. Slept through most of Beyond Paradise. Watched an episode of Outnumbered and went to bed. Nice to have a warm house. Sean prefers duvets and was astonished how warm we kept our house! Longish discussion with Ciara, Sean and Sam’s nephew earlier about history of Northern Ireland. He’s 18 and studying history.

Saturday and Sunday – Dry and mainly sunny. Just as I missed Christmas through illness, I have now missed Easter. Ok in the morning, but in the afternoon had a severe stomach pain and intense shivering which lasted a few hours. I managed to write the prayers – which Dot eventually delivered – and went to bed. Pain and shivering eventually eased but I felt groggy and couldn’t eat anything. Went to bed and slept a bit. This morning, no pain to speak of, but I felt exhausted and pretty rough. Didn’t sleep all that well.

Dot wanted to stay home but I persuaded her to go to church. I was ok – eventually had a hot cross bun. In the afternoon both David and Oliver rang to wish us a Happy Easter! Long conversation with Oliver. Carrie came round and tested my water: she said there was an infection but fairly low grade, and I should just drink lots of water. Felt better, but at bedtime my water was very dark. Still, I felt better and had something to eat. We also watched The Messiah and another part of the documentary on The Americas – this time the Caribbean. Fewer than 1000 steps last two days (together). Aaargh.

Monday – Grey, with a bit of rain in the evening. Felt pretty rotten at first but varied during the day. Symptoms of cold on top of UTI. Lot of sneezing. Ate a bit more than yesterday. I got up after lunch and Kim came round with cake. I managed to keep conversation going ok, and we had a nice discussion. Later I had some fried potatoes and rhubarb crumble. I turned a switch on for Des and discovered Robin is not able to come to the Foundry tomorrow; so I cried off too. Slowly catching up with e-mails.

Tuesday – Dry, cool; some sun. Felt pretty ropey in the morning, but got up and went to get pills with Dot. Also returned library book at Plumstead Road library. Then down to Morrisons, where I stayed in the car and possibly slept a bit while Dot shopped fairly briefly. I did a bit of research on Parish Pump while Dot was at violin lesson with Anna (I took her) but felt very tired and lay down for a while. Took Paracetamol and after an hour or so felt better. Cooked salmon meal and we watched Grace, during which Dot gave Anne a ring (it was Philip’s birthday). Later watched chess and University Challenge, then FaceTimed Canada and spoke to David and Amy, who seemed tired but not as ill as I’d feared. Hard to tell, of course. Late in bed but managed over 1000 steps. Just. Saw goldfinch earlier on tree outside bedroom. Made me feel better. May be over the worst!

Wednesday – Again dry, mix of cloud and sun. Felt pretty groggy when I woke but soon improved. Had an early bath because Bridget came to clean at about 9.30am, and then got on with Parish Pump pieces, on Martin Luther’s marriage, Kitchener (the man, not the town in Ontario), and the first ascent of Annapurna. Turned out quite interesting: finished while Dot was at orchestra rehearsal. Felt tired during the day, and so did Dot, but she was quite busy. We are getting old, of course.

At midday (as Bridget finished) we went to church for the Bible study. It was a bit of a blur to me, especially as Carrie and Phil were there, and Debbie and Ellie weren’t. But Dot said it was OK. Des and Chris got home from Italy around 9.20pm, feeling the cold (it had been much warmer earlier), and I gave them their keys. Dot arrived around 9.50 feeling a lot better: think I’m improving too.

++ Suppose I should mention that Norwich City have fired their manager after another loss on Monday (3-1 at Millwall).

It’s Friday 18 April, and I forgot my father’s birthday yesterday – possibly because we were so busy. But no excuse. It’s now 1030 and the gas man has just left after spending about 90 minutes putting our heating system right. Valve problem in the airing cupboard and a recalcitrant radiator. Oh yes: it’s Good Friday.

Last Saturday (12 April) it was warm and sunny at first: cloudier later. Dot and I rehearsed our song for the last time, and I updated my blog. After a light lunch we set off for North Elmham Eastgate centre, where we took part in a poetry/prose/song event organised by James Knox Whittet. Hs wife Ann was also there: she had been seriously ill with pneumonia. Knew several people from the Fakenham library event. Quite a long programme: happily our song, Sands of Luskentyre, was second on the list and went surprisingly well. I also did an Iona poem to finish. Lots of good stuff. Including two Gaelic songs by Anna, and a poem about Yesnaby on Orkney. James read from his book again. Nice cakes. Got home just in time to get ready to go to the Greens for a meal. Walked both ways, ending up with nearly 6000 steps. Derek and Janet Bower also there. Had a really good time and arrived home about 10.45pm. Watched a little football and were in bed by 11.30pm. Very tired. 

Sunday – Still tired. Quite warm, but rain later. Went to joint service at St Luke’s led by Bishop. We were part of worship band. Bishop was quite low key and avoided any net zero nonsense. Sermon quite good. Spoke to lots of people afterwards, many of them from St Luke’s. Took Ray home afterwards: strangely high number of people parking near his house. Then called in at St Aug to pick up mugs so that we could put them through our dishwasher. Oh yes. Watched a fair bit of television, including a good episode of Grace and the Boat Race (men and women) – both won easily by Cambridge. Also a bit of football. Later almost all the football results went badly. Liverpool won and Spurs lost. Contacted Robin, who is feeling better. 

Monday –  Bit cooler, but some sun and dry. Guy came to service the house alarm (Sonata) almost on the dot of 8.30am: had to put trousers on and go down. He put a new battery in. When Dot got up we drove up to church with the mugs we had put through the dishwasher. Later had a look at Channel Island details and warmed to it a bit. Kerry (Arniel) rang and we booked it. Checked visa requirement for Canada, which seemed straightforward and was getting on well with the insurance when I realised that Dot had already booked insurance for Rhodes and her details would have clashed with what I was trying to do. Rang Staysure and spoke to useless woman; got pretty depressed. May choose different company.

Went out for walk, which got me over 5000 for the day. Down Rosary Road, up Bishopbridge, through into Close and back after circuit of car park. Earlier Dot and I had chat with John at No 19, who still isn’t better. I felt pretty ill first thing this morning, and later had strange pain across stomach – seemed like gas, but not sure. Still getting head/ear problems. 

Tuesday – Rain in the morning and evening, but a dry afternoon. Still reasonably warm. Got up very late after disturbed night. Had bath and then lunch. Feeling rather down over travel insurance, which I hadn’t sorted out. Have now written to Kerry with details of my medical conditions and await a reply. Disillusioned with Staysure. Dot went to garden centre at Sprowston and bought some rocks, then re-did little bit of garden at front – looks very good. Meanwhile I walked up and over the top to take tickets to Naomi. Ended day with over 5000 steps. Booked a table at the Foundry for next Tuesday. and sorted out bins for us, Des and Sarah. Des is still away, and so is Mark. In the evening watched various things and abandoned a so-called comedy called The Change. Watched a little bit of Aston Villa v PSG. which the former won 3-2 but the latter won 5-4 on aggregate. Cooked duck. 

Wednesday – Breezy; cooler, especially when the gas went off, leaving us without heat or hot water. Bizarrely it came on again after I’d booked an engineer, then went off again. Even more bizarrely the downstairs electricity went off as well, but I think that was because Dot was doing an in-depth clean of the oven, which may have tripped something. [No – it was related to water in a heating valve.]

Aargh! One thing after another. Message back from travel agent. Will probably have to go in to discuss medical conditions. Lunchtime Bible study as usual: usual crowd plus Luke, a quietish older guy with Orthodox background. Ellie on phone. Think it went ok. Spent some time in afternoon sorting out charity money, then walked up to post cheques. Still less than 3000 steps today. Cooked complicated dinners – lamb for Dot and fried steak for me. Swapped prayer-leading with Howard; so will be doing it this Sunday. We watched three episodes of Ruth Ellis drama which was very well done but at the same time depressing because it was true, and she was screwed by lawyers. On the plus side, the guy she killed appeared to have deserved it. I probably shouldn’t say that.

Thursday – Very busy. Dry, mainly sunny. Warm out of wind. Dot woke up early and got me cup of tea. House chilly because heating off. Men building new wire fence to left of steps at end of road. Call from Kerry – fixed travel insurance meeting for later in day, then drove to Salthouse to see art exhibition at church. Spoke to Ian Dyble (the vicar) and found ourselves on same wavelength. Bought some cards, then drove to Cley NWT, where we had tea and scone and looked at another exhibition – this one by John Hurst, a guy we met at North Elmham. Saw a couple of marsh harriers, then drove home.

Got bus into city and went to travel agent. Long session with Kerry, who is very nice. Ended up with insurance that cost more than ticket to Canada. Also insured Channel Islands trip. Walked to Jarrolds, where we had wine and bread, then walked back to Marks & Spencer, where we bought food and then some trousers for Dot. Got into conversation with very pleasant guy outside changing room who had just bought his first suit for about 30 years in preparation (partly) for his daughter’s graduation in medicine at Bristol. Saw daughter as she went into changing room and she looked strangely familiar. No idea why.

Walked home. Had a cup of tea and watched football, then cooked M&S food – chicken and mushrooms, which was excellent. Saw end of Ruth Ellis drama. Very well done. 

Monday 7 April – Weather much the same: bit more cloud. Got up very late, feeling depressed. Caught up with stuff on computer and got the guitar working properly. Dot and I rehearsed a bit – she is still quite nervous about it. Watched football: always good to see Liverpool lose. Spurs won but didn’t look convincing. Didn’t feel too good generally.

Decided not to go to parochial council meeting. Dot took me to St Augustine’s and I walked back via river path, doing over 4000 steps for the day. Made myself lamb steak and cleared kitchen up. Watched some rugby highlights. When Dot got back we watched a chess programme and part of a dangerous roads programme – this time in Java. Seem more uncared for than dangerous. 

Tuesday – Weather much the same. Cold wind in the evening when we went to watch Norwich City draw 0-0 with Sunderland. Surprisingly, it was a good match, though no one could shoot. We took Phil Gazely with us. Got talking to a young boy at interval after his father offered us two of the seats at their table. He was great!  Father was nice too. Earlier in the day we practised my song for Saturday again. Think it’s coming together.

Earlier we joined Brian and Tricia for breakfast at Un Café – very good as usual. Dot bought a plant. Rang Robin but couldn’t get through; managed to speak to Jennie Downing’s daughter – she’s still in hospital but improving. Researched Old Testament structure for tomorrow(!). Dot did quite a bit in the garden. Over 4000 again. 

Wednesday – Grey and quite chilly, but dry. Drove to church and did a Bible study – sort of a look at part of the structure of the Old Testament, mainly the Pentateuch/Torah. Seemed a bit chaotic to me, but people seemed to like it. Ellie there for the last time for a bit, plus Dot, Debbie, Jude and Steven, who seemed a bit down afterwards – not sure why.

Call later from Anne to Dot: Louise might have quite serious problem in her head: needs a scan, but she’s in Thailand with her family. Rehearsed song again. Still not really happy with it. Dot had a night off from orchestra following concert. Watched a couple of episodes of House of David on Prime. Ok, but a bit slow. Arsenal beat Real Madrid 3-0. Not a big admirer of Declan Rice, but he scored two brilliant free kicks. 

Thursday – warmer; dry. Managed over 8000 steps. Bridget came quite early to do cleaning. She was heading out for Greece in the afternoon! After she left Dot and I went up to the travel agents (Heys) on the bus and spent an hour or two with Kerry, who fixed us up with tickets to Canada on September 2 and suggested a couple of things for another holiday – eg Switzerland or Channel Islands. Didn’t decide on those.

Walked down to Jarrolds and had light lunch / scotch egg  plate and Provence rosé, which was excellent. Dot had Malbec. Walked home and practised song for Saturday. Getting there. Lay down for a bit, then had bacon sandwich. Walked up to Vue with Jude and met Kim, then all went in to see first two episodes of Series 5 of The Chosen, just released. Very good as usual. Saw John Drake outside – seem to run into him a lot. Later FaceTimed Amy, who has arrived in Canada, and had a chat. Told David and Chrissy about our Canada dates. 

Friday – warm, sunny and dry. Linda came and cut our hair. In the afternoon we stocked up at Morrisons after retrieving my jackets from the cleaners. We rehearsed the song again several times: still not entirely happy. Street meet with Sarah, Ciara (both on chairs because of back and leg injuries), Matt, Jonathan, Joe and Sam. Joined briefly by drunk but harmless man passing through. Afterwards I cooked salmon with potatoes for me, bread only for Dot. Listened to Norwich City playing badly against Burnley and going 2-0 down by half time. Stopped listening and watched Beyond Paradise, during which they pulled back to 2-1, which is how it ended. Des and Chris in Florence. Also watched a documentary on a guy with Parkinson’s who drove through Africa, and a second episode of Austin, which is very funny. Starring Ben Miller and Sally Phillips. 

Wednesday, 2 April – Sunny and dry again, with a cool wind. Again. Des came over to talk about plants and brought his grandson Charlie, who continues to view us with suspicion. Drove to church for Bible study. We got through the whole of Ruth. Lovely book: Debbie, Jude, Steven and Dot. Ellie unavailable. Afterwards home for quick lunch before Dot drove me to hospital for dermatology clinic – quite hard to find – where Dr Torchia took a quick look at my mole and said it was seborrhoeic keratoses, and not skin cancer. Which is very good, except that it’s much harder to say.

Walked back across to UEA, where I got in a bus and waited for well over ten minutes for it to move. Took me to station, and my walk home took me over 4000 steps (end of day well over 5000). Cooked salmon, and then Dot left for orchestra with Janet and Nova. Apparently it went well. While Dot was out I played through some EP games, including one of my losses. Contacted Kristine and sent Kavana best wishes for her viva, via Kim. Trying to work out best way forward with Phyllis’s estate; new idea from Louisa which Anna “doesn’t understand”.  Aargh. 

Thursday – sunny and pleasant – bit of wind. Anne came round late morning, and we had tea in the garden before she and Dot went for a walk up to Kett’s Heights and then down to new restaurant opposite Julian Bridge, which they enjoyed despite having to order electronically. Meanwhile I was catching up on EP games, which had fallen about three months behind, and a number other things, including cooking myself a couple of lamb steaks, which were delicious with King Edward mashed potatoes and peas. Bridget came to clean and eventually Dot and Anne came back. Later Anne rang to say Louise had a problem with her head and needed a scan. Worrying. In the evening  Dot and I went to the theatre to see a thriller, Picture me Dead. Quite good, but theatre half empty. Both of us had double gin and tonic. Last episode of Bergerac: quite good in the end, despite the title character being irritating. 

Friday – Weather much the same: Sunny and dry, but with a chilly wind. Dot went to Ladies that Lunch with Sue Eagle and Helen Lamb, plus two others, at Caister Hall and came back with a glowing report. I had intended to go out for a walk but had diarrhoea – possibly from a dodgy banana – so stayed home, and it went away. Cleared up kitchen and my study and printed a couple of things out. Had fish on toast after Dot got back: she didn’t (have fish on toast). Went out for street meet though Des and Chris, Mark, Jo and Sam and Ciara were away. Spoke to Mary, Matt and Angela. Afterward watched final three episodes of Dope Girls, which had its points but so much unpleasantness that I wish we hadn’t bothered. News full of Trump tariffs and Green nazi stories.  Inside steps got me up to just over 4000…

Saturday – …compared to nearly 8000 today. Dot’s big concert day. This time at St Catherine’s Church on Aylsham Road. I walked there – possibly a mistake, but I got there in good time. Sat with Angela, Rodney, Bridget and David. Also Vicky’s boyfriend Anthony. Present were the O’dells, Neville Thrower, Graham Smith and several others, not to mention the orchestra. Very good music. Dot drove me home (with Nova). Earlier Dot and I went to Morrisons and stocked up. Watched Beyond Paradise. Norwich lost 2-1 away to bottom club Plymouth. Renewed  parking permit  and wrote prayers for Sunday, though not in that order. Sunny but quite a cold wind. Oliver back from Lake District. 

Sunday – Sunny again, dry again, chilly wind again. Drove to church. Howard preached and I led the prayers. Martin on piano, Anna, Dot, Steve and me in band. Took Ray home as usual. Restrung guitar with a bit of help from Dot: strings arrived just after lunch. Not much else done. Both had a bad night; so quite tired. Had a long FaceTime with David: he is doing some interesting things with Diderot. Cooked some cod and afterwards watched a two-hour episode of Grace. Felt very down. 

Friday March 28 – mainly warm and dry, turning cool in the evening. Woke late, wrote blog and edited pix, then checked bank account. After lunch walked up hill and over the top to Naomi’s to drop off football tickets. Spoke to her briefly. Met Dot on Riverside Road and we investigated a site we’d seen previously from the top – turned out to be a storage centre accessible off Gas Hill. Then walked along riverside path home.

Tired, but helped Dot with puzzles, then lay down for about half an hour. Street meet included Mark, Des, Chris, Mary and for a short while Joe and Sam. No John or Matt. Quite a chilly wind. Des got us fish and chips, and we watched Beyond Paradise and Death in Paradise – went to sleep in the latter. Earlier Bergerac. 

Saturday – Sunny and dry, but a chilly wind. Partial eclipse of the sun in the morning, which I saw but failed to get any convincing pictures of – unlike Mark. In the afternoon walked Dot to Carrow Road, where she saw City beat West Bromwich Albion 1-0, with a goal in the 92nd minute by Josh Sargent. Went to meet her because she is still dizzy, but missed her – she came up the road and I went down the steps. Later she prepared the prayers. Watched bits of two Cup matches: Fulham losing 3-0 to Crystal Palace, and Nottingham Forest beating Brighton on penalties after ending 0-0 after extra time.

Sunday – British Summer Time! Chilly wind, but bright and dry. Put clocks forward last night and woke up in good time. Drove to church with cakes. Gave sermon which several people said they liked. Graham was there with his mother. It was Mother’s Day.  Dot did prayers. Matt and the two of us in band. Took Ray home. Small tree (probably oranges) arrived out of the blue from David for Dot: she FaceTimed to thank him, and we had long talk. Oliver appeared briefly at the end. After lunch watched a bit of football and then final two episodes of The Flatshare, which was brilliant. Also penultimate episode of Protection. 

Monday – Dry and sunny; quite mild, but a bit of a wind. Kim and her son Kian called (by car) to pay me for ticket I bought for The Chosen at Vue on April 10. They stayed for tea and a chat, which was nice. I learned a few things about helicopters. After a quick lunch Dot and I drove to North Walsham and bought flowers for graves. After putting them in the cemetery drove to Roger and Debbie’s and had tea and biscuits. Arrived home during rush hour, but not too bad. In evening watched several things on TV including the last episode of Protection, which sort of faded away after writing itself into a corner. Not bad, though. Put bins out and watched University Challenge. Mark and Sarah gave us some chocolate cake. 

Tuesday – sunny and dry, but chilly wind. Drove to Archant pensioners’ get-together and had breakfast, which was excellent, especially the fried bread. Sat with Tricia. Robin too “groggy” to come, and Brian apparently not feeling too good. Tried to get contact details for Jennie Downing, who is in hospital, but not successful. Later in the morning went to Rosary with flowers; a burial was clearly about to take place, but we finished and got away in time. Had to lie down in afternoon, but later went for walk over to new café by Julian Bridge to check it out. As a result managed over 4000 steps in the day. Watched first two episodes of Dope Girls, set after first world war; first episode so obscure (literally) we almost abandoned it, but carried on. We’re like that.