
Pretty busy week. Today Dot went to visit a school at Tasburgh and I walked up to church (with my guitar on my back – a first) to help Phil practise guitar with Matt on piano. We did quite a lot (90 minutes), including a lot of ceilidh music. Dot arrived for the last half hour or so and joined in. I think we sounded pretty good! Earlier on the way up I bumped into Rob and Penny, and we had a quick chat.
Later Dot walked up to the dentist because she broke a bit off her front tooth yesterday. They fitted her in immediately, and it’s all sorted at a cost of £200. We went on the street for a drink and chat at 5.30, and Des bought us some fish and chips – first time for months I’ve dared to have them. Meanwhile I think I’ve finished my sermon for Sunday, we’ve watched Death in Paradise (good) and a bit of West Side Story, which as far as I’m concerned is pretty awful, and we’ve just finished chatting to David on FaceTime about days gone by. The Murrays were visiting them.
Last Sunday was very cold but dry. Went to church, and it was extremely cold inside. Wore three layers plus anorak and had my hood up, except when I was doing prayers. Everyone in masks but me. Simon Stokes preached – good as usual. Debbie/Carrie were complaining afterwards about old hymns (picked by Martin) – I can see what they mean, up to a point. Spoke to David on FT – children Ok. Watched a lot of TV – Around the World in 80 Days (brilliant), The Green Planet (Attenborough irritating, but good photography), Call the Midwife (just the right side of twee most of the time) and The Tourist (very weird but compelling).
Monday was cold and dry again. Dot went to Brooke in the morning, then discovered the head had cancelled it. Meanwhile I sorted out a compline for tomorrow and copied some liturgy for church (some pages keep going missing). Later Dot picked up coats from cleaners and bought a new, rather nice mustard-coloured one for herself from Go Outdoors. Have halved my dose of beta-blockers and started taking my blood pressure, which turns out to be low (101/69 tonight). Remembered my mother’s blood pressure was very low – maybe it’s why I feel so cold all the time. Watched a lot of TV again – including You’ve Got Mail, in which Meg Ryan is superb: you can see what she’s thinking. Also a couple of episodes of Hidden Assets, which continues to be excellent, the first episode of Trigger Point, a bomb disposal thriller that’s highly promising, and the final episode of Only Connect. E M Forster would have been proud.
Tuesday was very cold again, but dry and still. No sun. In the afternoon walked with Dot up to the Ear Care Centre and had my wax vacuumed out in roughly 5 minutes. Cost £55. She walked home, but I arrived not much later. In the evening Eleanor came round and we went to Judy’s for Cake and Compline. All there except Claire. After arriving home we watched a really good documentary on T S Eliot (Sky Arts). Earlier we watched The Responder, about a street-level policeman set in Liverpool. Not over-impressed.
Wednesday was brighter and not quite so cold. Dot had a DSSO meeting at the Showground, and I walked up to the Maids Head for a chat with Paul Dickson, who may publish my Princess book.He was also interested in my poems – very encouraging. Have sent him Houseago and Little. Wrote part of sermon and chose hymns for Sunday. Drove Dot to orchestra at St Mary Magdalene because parking there is at a premium, and picked her up afterwards. Watched Part Two of The Responder, which was better, and a documentary on Jay Blades learning to read, which was very interesting. Saw photographer Denise Bradley In the Maids Head; she seemed pleased to see me.
Thursday was Sheila’s funeral: requiem mass at North Walsham RC Church. Arrived in NW early, bought flowers in Sainsburys, put some on graves and took a lovely bunch to the church and handed them to the funeral directors. Dot was nervous about reading the lesson but eventually checked with the priest, who was very nice. I found her a Bible at the back of the church. Very large family gathering, plus friends: church was pretty full. Walked to cemetery afterwards with Dot and got there before anyone else except funeral directors and priest.
Fortunately the weather was good, mainly sunny but with a chilly wind. After the burial we walked to the Shambles restaurant for the wake. Very nice buffet. Spoke to quite a few people – Bridgett didn’t come to the wake because the sisters don’t get on. Don’t know why. At Shambles spoke to Diane Velhagen (NW heritage person), Annabelle (friend of Martin Kirby), plus Sheila’s sister and her husband, and some others. Got back home (via Spixworth road) before Bridget the cleaner was picked up by David. In the evening watched The Bay and Screw (both very good). Am feeling quite a bit better on lower beta blockers, and blood pressure is good too.




