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Celebrating David Archer’s 60th birthday

David Archer’s birthday party: Eleanor, Judy, Dot, Derek and Janet, and Vicky. (The Rev) Eleanor is a Canon of the Cathedral and a friend, Judy is the churchwarden, and Derek and Janet are Vicky’s parents; Vicky is an old friend.

Thursday, May 14 – A few heavy showers; not warm. Dot spent most of day with Anne: first she came here and received birthday presents and coffee; then they went by bus into the city and booked a holiday at Trailfinders: they’re going to Nice at the end of August. They then went to Jarrolds for lunch. Meanwhile I had a bath and later drove up to Brian’s to await the arrival of Chris the computer man, who installed Brian’s new computer. he was very sympathetic to Brian’s difficulty with remembering how to operate it – it’s a clone of the one he had before. Tricia also is not digitally minded, though she was good at crawling under the table to connect wires.

Think all is well: I also took a pic of Brian for his blue card and sent it to him later. Cost of computer £625 – I think Brian gave him £640. All a bit of a weight off my mind. Bit worried Brian might be losing memory: he gave me an old pic of me from one of the yomps.  Got home just after Anne left, about 5.30. Felt very tired. Had soup (pea and ham hock) and watched a few things on TV, including Race Across the World, in this case Mongolia, which was a bit of a nightmare. Also another Italian detective thing, which doesn’t get any better, plot wise. Kim is back from Scotland. I sent her the Goodness of God video, which she really liked, I’m happy to say. 

Friday – Windy and cool, with showers. Linda came at 12 to cut our hair, and I had a bath afterwards. Felt very tired and not particularly well all day. Dot was having trouble with her shoulder – “perhaps from lifting something”. Too nippy for street meet, so Des, Chris, Matt and Sarah came round. Afterwards Des got fish and chips, and we watched some old Morecambe and Wise – really good. Then walked to the Cathedral for Festival Compline and met Vicky there. Very esoteric service – lots of foreign language and not very tuneful music, though I’m told it was very well done. Not my thing at all and not much to do with Christianity unless you were already tuned in to that kind of thing. Held candles. Afterwards hooked up with Nova, and Vicky was kind enough to give us all a lift home. Watched the news and went to bed. 

Saturday – mainly dry, and warmer. Had to get up early because Robin came and put a new tap in the kitchen, then repaired the cistern in the shower room and put the new shower screen in the bathroom. The last bit he finished while we went to Brundall for David Archer’s 60th birthday party. As a result of some sequence of events I’m still not sure about David, driven by a friend and with Eleanor as a passenger, did not arrive till about an hour after the scheduled start. Bridget partly worried, partly angry.

Bridget cutting the cake (made by the Alburgh expert)

Met Heather, who I bumped into at Morrisons a few weeks ago and is a friend of Bridget’s. Turned out Heather came to a Developing Consciousness session at St Augustine’s many, many years ago. Dot and I sat with Judy, Eleanor, Vicky and Janet and Derek. Ample teatime fare and several cups of tea meant that when we had lasagne at about 8pm I had eaten too much, and this added to the fact that I forgot to take my pills this morning gave me heartburn and a fear for a few moments that I might be sick.

Meanwhile we watched a bit of the Cup Final, in which Man City beat Chelsea 1-0, and highlights of the play-off semi-finals in the EFL. We followed this by watching Mamma Mia, Here We Go Again, but because of a recording error we watched the second half first. Interesting. Abba music brilliant as always. Earlier cancelled Barclays Credit Card as a precaution against more cash being taken in scam. 

Sunday – Started dry; some rain later, starting happily as we arrived home from church. Liz C led service, with Eleanor preaching. Graham popped in afterwards. Tidied up kitchen and we had lunch out of stuff we’d brought home from yesterday’s party in a bag! then watched quite a lot of TV as usual on a Sunday, including football, Ice Road Truckers, bit of a new comedy-detective series, another episode of Believe Me, about a true-life serial rapist and the women nobody believed. Cooked salmon for supper – really nice, for some reason. 

Monday – Cloudy and still a bit chilly. Few drops of rain. David’s 54th birthday – unbelievable. I was 54 in 1999, when I was editorial training manager and three years off early retirement. Spoke to him early on FaceTime – Oliver was there too, on a visit. Dot went into city to meet Amanda and have lunch with her in Benji’s, one of the Jarrolds restaurants. Large teacake, apparently.

Meanwhile I was being driven mad constructing an e-mail to Barclays about the IQ scam. Found it very difficult to copy my letters to the company over to the one I was writing to Barclays, and then get pix of my bank statements on there too. Eventually made it, but not till she got back. Tidied up a few more loose ends in the paper department. In the afternoon Dot bought a hanging basket from Highways Garden Centre while I tidied up around the house. Neither of us wanted much for supper: I had teacakes, blueberries, honey and a blackberry and apple tart. Oh yes I did. In the evening saw the end of Believe Me, plus some stuff from the Chelsea Flower Show and a flash at the end of Look East commemorating the death of Ros Swetman’s husband, who worked for them (Ros is a violinist in Sillars). Also an old programme of classical music originally broadcast last Christmas. Mainly arias. Spoke to David again from bed about an hour after Dot thought it was. Very warm in Waterloo. 

Tuesday – Warmer, but a fair bit of rain on and off. Up early to drive to The Foundry to meet Brian and Tricia, Robin and Shelagh. Had “American” pancake with maple syrup and bacon. Dot had same but with blueberries instead of bacon. Had good reminisce with R and B while Dot chatted with S and T. Home for brief lunchlet before driving to the hospital in quickest time for years. Dot saw physio – Charlotte – who was very thorough, and we then moved on to dermatology, where she got the all-clear. Had a drink and Twix while we waited. Cooked duck legs for supper and we finished the rhubarb.

Arsenal won Premier League when Man City could only draw 1-1 with Bournemouth. Sadly Spurs lost 2-1 to Chelsea; so it all hinges on final game for them. Meanwhile Southampton have been ejected from Championship play-offs for spying on other teams’ training sessions. Seems a bit harsh. Delighted that Barclays have managed to get scam money repaid by MYIQ/US. Also received subscription cancellation confirmation from them. Still don’t know what subscription was for. 

Helping with Coomes tree

Dot at Cley exactly ten years ago

On Saturday, May 9 I felt distinctly odd most of the day: head was going round and feeling heavy (not an easy trick). Drove to Brian’s and picked up his computer – hard to distinguish which wire was which – and took it home, then with Dot to Magdalen Street, where we were able to park close to the computer shop. Took it in and chatted to the guy I’d seen yesterday: he thought the upshot would probably be buying a new one, but he’s going to have a look at what was going on. Brian is quite happy to buy a new one, and I reported progress to him by phone.

Then we drove to Notcutts, where Dot wanted to buy a hanging basket, but they were very expensive and not particularly alluring. So we got a couple of lavenders and a geranium. Notcutts is a garden centre version of Marks and Spencer or Waitrose. You can tell by the customers. Back home we had lunch and I lay down for a while as Dot gardened. Weather was sunny and warm all day. Eventually I had a bath. Des came round to return a book and suggest setting up a meal at his with Tara and John. We concurred. He is helping to teach a Nigerian refugee – a young lad – some basic English stuff. He said that many in that lad’s position are very poorly served by the services in place.

Salmon en croute for supper, and between us Dot and I tidied the kitchen and elsewhere. Read a bit of Earth’s Earliest Ages by G H Pember – really interesting. Watched the National Theatre production of Under Milk Wood – totally brilliant. Then a bit of Match of the Day. Less inspired. 

Sunday – Surprisingly cold, but dry. Listened to good Worship Service in bed after a bad night. Trouble sleeping. Up late and had suppery lunch of mackerel fillets with mashed potatoes. Wrote to Phil Coomes,  Kristine and Anne about an e-mail I received from a cousin once removed of David Coomes who is compiling a family tree. He wants to contact them; so I gave them his e-mail. Kristine already very positive, but I haven’t heard from the others – not surprising in Anne’s case as she is travelling up to Scotland.

In the evening drove to Upton church with Bridget to a concert by her husband’s choral group, Sine Nomine. Not mad about choral music, but it was quite enjoyable. The conductor was brilliant when the pianist got a bit out of sync. Drove back  and had late tea, watched some football and the first episode of a new serial called Believe Me, about a woman who got raped and wasn’t believed. True story, I think. Also had FaceTime with David and eventually got a list of books he’s interested in for his birthday. Arsenal beat West Ham, which is good for Spurs.

Monday – Cold but mainly dry. Very busy day. Dot and I both had our feet done in the morning – clean bills of health in that area – and afterwards I called at the computer shop to sort out some details re Brian’s computer. Also a couple of phone calls later. All seems to be going well. Home for lunch, and afterwards Robbie (Jake’s mate) came to put some latex on the bathroom floor. While he was doing that I took Dot up to the dentist, where she had a tooth out. She had anaesthetic, so I went and picked her up later at the suggestion of the dentist. Good decision, I thought.

Sorted out a couple of things on computer, including sending books for David’s birthday, then got in touch with bank over the scam payments. I think they’re sorting it – may even get the money back, but my main concern is to stop them taking more. We’re getting a new bank card; so all should be ok. Meanwhile Dot miraculously found a pawn from my small chess set that had gone missing. Actually got entangled in trousers, which were in to be washed. Put the bins out and the car, because we had a call to say Robbie’s coming back tomorrow morning. Soup for supper. Spurs drew 1-1 after going 1-0 up, which is a bit disappointing. Watched a documentary about the ancient Hittites, and the second episode of that true-life drama about several rapes in a black cab that weren’t tackled properly. 

Monday – Cool and windy. Spent quite a lot of the day researching and writing for Parish Pump.   Up fairly early because Robbie came to lay the bathroom floor. Finished by about 11am – looks very good, but we have to stay out till tomorrow. Spoke to Sonata about bill and said I didn’t want the siren done – checked my insurance documents, and there’s nothing on there about having an alarm. No news from computer guy. Des came over to return a book, and we had a chat. Dot went to Matalan and bought a new waste bin for the bathroom. Cooked pies and veg for supper and watched the end of Mint, which was a pretty straightforward drama done in a very arty way. Then watched Rear Window, an atmospheric film by Hitchcock with a few holes in the plot. 

Wednesday – Windy and cool with some sharp showers. Up early to work on Parish Pump, and by the end of the afternoon had completed four articles – one each on the Declaration of Independence, the 1966 World Cup, the cloning of Dolly the sheep and the creation of Twitter. Not what I would necessarily have chosen, but my top four out of the six suggested.

Bridget came round a little late because her next-door neighbour had dropped dead, and his partner was a bit upset. He did have a brain tumour, but he wasn’t expected to die yet. Bridget liked our new bathroom floor, as did Des when we showed it to him later. He had popped in to confirm a lunch date with Tara and John at his house. Ciara also called round to pick up the plants we had been looking after and to give us a bottle of red. she and Sean had been working hard at their cabin in Surrey for a few days.

Liaised with the computer man and Brian about installing his computer, and we have settled on 4pm tomorrow. Unless something goes wrong at the hospital, which Brian is visiting earlier. Went to Morrisons and spent £100 – one of our smaller shops. Later cooked a rather nice pizza before Dot left for orchestra rehearsal with Janet and Nova. At this point my mouse ran out of charge. Fortunately this still leaves my iPad and my iPhone…. However, charged quickly. When Dot got home watched Amandaland (not the best episode) and 2626 (unbelievably, the last). 

New tap, new screen, new view, new computer

View from bedroom window just after tree was cut down

Monday – Bank Holiday. Dry but cooler and overcast. Robin the plumber came just before 10am, fixed our shower door and arranged to do other tasks after much discussion. Did usual Monday crossword and quite a difficult sudoku. Watched a fair bit of television. Des came round to tell us John Digby had had a heart attack, but is recovering. Hard for Tara, who is not well herself. In the afternoon went to Morrisons to stock up again, and I cooked duck legs with French fries – cooked in oven. Quite nice actually. Saw the end of The Count of Monte Cristo on iPlayer. Rather sad. Also a continuation of Secret Service, where a second person I liked died. Also 100 years of Life on Earth, which they seemed very smug about. 

Tuesday – Sunny and reasonably warm. Up early to go to the Town House for our monthly meeting of Archant pensioners. Sat with Tricia, Robin and Shelagh; quite well attended. Eric and Peter Franzen, the editor, came over to talk separately. With R & S, we were the last to leave. Then drove up to plumbing shop off Ketts Hill and bought a new tap for the kitchen, plus a screen for the bathroom shower. Hope they fit. Then back home, where Dot read in the garden for a while.

While we were out, they cut down the tree which dominated the view from our back bedrooms. Not a great tree, and arguably we get more light now. Interestingly I noticed a few hours later that I recognised the view from our bedroom window – the tree was not there when we moved in! Meanwhile had a bit of a stomach upset, though I managed to eat shepherds pie supper with no problem. Hope it’s ok tomorrow because I’ve arranged to drive to Swaffham to deliver some old Christian books to a charity that redistributes them in undeveloped countries. Have packed them in the car. Watched a couple of dramas that are ongoing, plus a documentary on the River Dee which I think is an updated version of one we’ve seen. Also last episode of Secret Service, which is set up nicely for a second series. Pity they killed off one of my favourite characters. Well two, actually. 

Wednesday – Grey and light rain for most of day. Chilly. Had a very bad night, getting up several times with diarrhoea, but recovered enough to drive to Swaffham to donate well over 100 Christian books to Books Aid. Went the back way but still a number of diversions. Met Ken Jeffery – a nice bloke about my age and after dropping off books had cup of tea and chat with him and his wife, Christine, who went to the Blyth School! We seemed pretty much on the same wavelength –  he also plays guitar – and ukulele!  Home about 4pm. We had a very light meal before Dot went to orchestra with Janet and Nova. Played through some En Passant games and responded to Tricia, asking for help with Brian’s computer. May go round there tomorrow, after Jake has been to look at bathroom floor. Watched Amandaland and 2026, both brilliant. 

Thursday – Quite pleasant weather. Jake came round to look at bathroom floor and give advice. Felt quite ill and lay down for a while before lunch, which was avocado and egg on toast (fast becoming a staple). Watched football, then drove up to vote; bit of a waste of time. Greens got in. Bridget came to clean, and afterwards I cooked sausages – lovely potatoes. Found compline (Ita 2). Sent out invitation to Compline, including Nikki. All came except Phil and Eleanor. Good session, in which Nikki took a big part. Dot cooked birthday cake for Judy and David (80 and 60). went down very well. Played Goodness of God video, which provoked discussion about different ways of worshipping. Nikki played us a song she sung to an iTunes music video. Great voice, very jazzy. 

Friday – Mainly bright and quite warm. Busy day. Drove to Uncafé for breakfast with Tricia and Brian. Discussed his computer problem. Later FaceTimed David to speak to him about it. And later still Dot dropped me off near Magdalen Street so that I could go to the computer shop at the end and ask about computer possibilities on Brian’s behalf. They were very helpful. On the way back from Uncafé, we picked up the shower screen : not easy. Discovered we could lower the back seats to accommodate it. After dropping me in Magdalen Street Dot went on to Talk at Two, one of Bridget’s series at Christ Church, Eaton – about the Norwich Shawl, which she really enjoyed: heavy on history.

I walked home via The Close and got into conversation with an Irish couple who lived on Mersea Island in Essex but had been very taken by Norwich. They were staying at the Holiday Inn at Carrow Road. In their 70s, I should think. Nice couple. Tired when I got home and lay down for a while. Street meet in the warm for a change: Des, Chris, Matt, Jon, Joe. Pleasant chat: almost no mention of election.  Sad to say Norwich went Green, probably because of students. Better elsewhere. Cooked lasagne and watched an interesting documentary on the evolution of England’s motorways, then a mediocre murder mystery set in Italy where everyone spoke English and an irritating English detective was assisting local police. It would never happen. Writing not great either. Watched a bit of the news. 

Back door and dentist

Centenary mug and second violinist

Wednesday, April 29 – Mainly sunny with a bit of coolish wind. Caught up with e-mails and dealt with charity money. Had avocado and egg for lunch, remembering how good avocado tastes with white truffle oil. Watched a bit of Outnumbered then drove up to Thorpewood with my letter for Dr Hampsheir, and when I got back walked to sorting office with the charity letters. Dot cleared up the utility room in readiness for installation of new door tomorrow.

Des came round and offered to get fish and chips tonight; later Dot remembered that she was going to orchestra, so I went over the road to check when the fish and chips was coming. It eventually was a bit late – not Des’s fault – but she had time to eat most of it before she left with Janet and Nova, and heated the remaining chips and ate them when she came home.  She got a centenary mug for her efforts. Meanwhile I watched the beginning of Wicker Man and Lord of the Flies, but wasn’t too impressed with either. When Dot got back we watched 2026, which is getting better and better, and two European Champions League games:  PSG 5-4 Bayern Munich; Atletico 1-1 Arsenal. Some ridiculous handball-penalty decisions. Another anti-Jewish attack in London. 

Thursday – Sunny and warm. About to get tea when there was a knock at the front door. It was the guys coming to fit our new back door. I had them down for noon. Oh well. Got them a coffee and they worked till about 12.30. Very friendly – brothers from Brighton originally and probably in their fifties. Door looks very good. Quick lunch, then Dot gave me a lift to Ber Street and I walked through to the dentist. Had x-rays and a minor repair that didn’t need numbing. Also light cleaning. New nurse Kelsey very pleasant.

Afterwards walked through Chapel Loke, down the little path parallel to Ber Street on the other side, down Thorn Lane, across the car park, past St Julian’s, over the bridge and in front of the station and down the steps. Meanwhile Dot was shopping at Riverside – mainly presents for Anne’s birthday. Both felt very tired and we rested. Then cooked cottage pie for supper and we watched a new thriller and Race Across the World, which has reached Kazakhstan. Bed quite early. Des and Ciara have left on their (separate) weekend trips. 

Friday – Sunny and warm. Up in time to greet Bridget at 10am, then drove Dot to Muspole Street to take broken side-table to Mr McPhee for mending. He pointed out it had been mended before but agreed to do it. Nice bloke but works in real dump. Finished reading John Murray’s book about his wife’s death: not really up my street. Didn’t feel I knew much about his wife afterwards.

After lunch caught up with usual Friday tasks and helped Dot with a bit of clearing up outside, mainly sweeping the side path. Felt very tired afterwards. She did much more. Street meet was just us at first, then Matt and Mary, and Joe passed by. Woman walking through said she liked seeing us there each Friday. Cooked salmon en croute and we watched the final Beyond Paradise, which was ok, and then a short documentary on Chernobyl, which was pretty frightening. Apparently it won’t be safe to live there for 20,000 years. Amazing so few people were killed – or were there? 

Saturday – Odd sort of day. Mainly dry, and Dot did quite a bit of work in the garden. Later on it rained a bit, and more was promised overnight. Plumber Robin was due at 9, but didn’t show up and has now rescheduled for Monday morning. Threw us out a bit. I started sorting out Christian books I want to give away and discovered quite a lot I didn’t. Quite difficult to access bottom shelves now. Body not up to it – or down to it. Worrying.

Actually felt very odd today – as if I wasn’t really present. Eventually took paracetamol, which helped. Had a late bath and then a cracker lunch. Read one of the books – obviously a very short one. Listened to second half of Norwich’s last match of the season, which they lost 2-1 away to Hull, thus preventing Wrexham from reaching the playoffs. Should have had a penalty at the very end, but referee chickened out. Or from Hull’s point of view, made a brave decision. We watched the original film of The Winslow Boy, which was brilliant. Then in the evening watched first two episodes of The Count of Monte Cristo, a French film subtitled and split into four. Again, very good. So far. In between, EFL highlights. 

Sunday – Almost entirely dry, though I took an umbrella to church. Got a parking space easily. Very small congregation. Eleanor led and preached, and Matt and Martin (on violin) led the music, which was very trad. Ray was there, but he was very tired. Chatted with most people afterwards and filled in a questionnaire for Steven – part of his dissertation. Teacakes for lunch and bacon and egg and fried potatoes for supper. 

Got together over 100 Christian books for Book Aid and sent my phone number to the guy who collects them. Dot did more work in the garden. Watched quite a bit of TV, including football, Attenborough’s wild garden series and a bit of Secret Service. Long chat with David about various things, including a walk they did in memory of city builder; Anglia Square: food; and adjusting history – or not. Also football: Spurs beat Aston Villa 2-1 away today. Now above West Ham. 

Last game of season

Latest street meet, featuring Jon, Simon (new neighbour), Des, Chris, Ciara, Mark, Mary and Dot – plus a glimpse of Sam’s new car

Sunny and quite warm on Friday, April 24. Dry. Up quite late. Felt a bit odd to start with, but improved after taking paracetamol. Did usual Friday tasks – bank account, picture editing – and wrote to doctor complaining about a letter I’d received from hospital which implied I wasn’t following instructions with catheter. I pointed out the defects of the entire department. Lucky him/them. Very popular street meet – Mary, new guy Simon, Matt, Mark, Sarah, Jon and us with brief appearances from Joe and Sam. Left a little early to cook lamb shoulder, and after eating it we watched Grace, whose plot seemed very familiar. Something we’d read? 

Saturday – Another bright blue day: warm except for a little coolish wind towards evening. Had a bath and caught up with some papers – chess, puzzles etc. Again felt slightly below par until I took paracetamol – ok after that.  Jonathan called round just after lunch with ticket, but Dot and I walked to Carrow Road on our own. Dot is walking very well now. Nice to see Gerald! Went up in lift and reached seat all right after having gin and tonic each. Not a great game: each side gave away pointless penalty and to be honest Swansea looked slightly better. Result 1-1. Stayed around a little while to watch end-of-season celebrations, with little kids frolicking on the pitch. Then walked home without seeing anyone we knew, and I cooked pies for supper. Earlier I had written some of Parish Pump for June, but plenty to do. Watched some football, some Attenborough stuff on garden wildlife and the first two episodes of a Canadian thriller which was also quite funny because of the (deliberate) ineptitude of the characters. 

Sunday – Sunny and warm. Amy home again from Canada – apparently she was quite well after first week. Had long chat with David and Chrissy on FaceTime about her, and marathons and books and vegan meals, not to mention a fox almost catching Tinkerbell. Earlier in the day we went to church for Communion. Graham was leading and Eleanor preaching – on Jesus being the gate, safety and risk.  Just under 20 in congregation. Ray apparently not well enough to come. Chatted afterwards, of course. Did some work in the garden after lunch – mainly cutting back ivy and moving concrete slabs. Chat with Mark, who goes back to work this week. Watched a lot of television, including the end of The Murder Line, which was quite compelling. Set in the Thousand Islands area of the St Lawrence. Also caught up on some football. Dot watched Countryfile while I cooked salmon. She feels drawn to farming. 

Monday – Bit more cloudy, but dry and fairly warm. Had a bath and wrote some more Parish Pump – Marilyn Monroe. Dot and I went to Morrisons and bought our first ever over-£200 food shop. To be fair, we needed quite a lot of stuff. Chatted to Ciara and Des on way back. Late lunch, watched another Attenborough garden programme and then drove to hospital, where I had an appointment at the gastro clinic. They were very happy with my results and said there was very little wrong with my liver. Drove home surprisingly quickly. Earlier Dot contacted the plumber, who will see us on Saturday, and texted the expert about our broken small table, who will see us on Friday. I cooked duck and we watched the start of a new thriller called  Secret Service, which seems promising. Dot has agreed to look after Ciara’s plants while she’s away for a few days.  

Tuesday – Little bit of rain overnight; otherwise dry with a coolish wind. Ciara came round with some plantlets to put on our windowsill, which had been recommended to her by Des! I finished my Parish Pump pieces – one each on John Constable, Marilyn Monroe and G K Chesterton – three people you will not often find in the same sentence. Also caught up on other computer items, but was annoyed to find further money had been taken from our account for a subscription we didn’t want and hadn’t asked for. Have been promised again that it will be returned, but will contact bank to make sure. Des popped round to survey the windowsill and bring me a Private Eye: he too is going away for the weekend – in his case to Lincolnshire  in an Air BnB with his family from Lichfield. Cooked yellow cod and watched a couple of thrillers – four (short) episodes of one and two of another. Earlier adjusted letter to doctor to avoid attacking gastro department and concentrating on urology. As you do. 

May be last stay in Buxton

Julia, waitress Ellie and Dot

A whole week this time… On Friday, April 17 it was mainly sunny and dry, with coolish wind. Up in good time to prepare for haircut – shorter at front, since you ask. Had bath. After lunch drove up to Rosary to put small bunch of flowers that Dot had picked on my father’s grave – it’s his birthday. Also checked Andrew’s and inserted a couple of bluebells. Then proceeded to Mulbarton by a circuitous route and left a flask and Tupperware with Carin Gazley: she had given us soup and other stuff when Dot was ill. Drove back home and had a street meet with quite good attendance: Des, Chris, Mark, Ciara, Jon, Matt, Sam and Joe. Cooked duck legs for supper having cancelled fish and chips option. Watched Race Round the World and Beyond Paradise, which is a bit bland. 

Saturday – Dry and quite warm but with a coolish wind. Dot and I went for a walk after lunch, upriver to St James Quay. Both felt quite tired by the time we got back – just before kick-off at Bristol City. Norwich went 1-0 down quickly but came back in the second half to win 2-4. Later Spurs drew 2-2 – very unlucky; opponents scored both their goals in added-on time at the end of each half. Spurs looked good. Later I cooked moussaka and tikka masala: I had the moussaka. Both very tasty. Afterwards watched two episodes of a thriller, Missed Call, about a girl going missing in France. Pretty good. And then Match of the Day. Got cases down out of the loft. Oliver is in Manchester, ready for his marathon tomorrow. 

Sunday – Warm and dry with a slightly cool wind. Spent much of the middle of the day tracking Oliver on his marathon in Manchester. He did really well despite injuring himself a week ago. Caught a glimpse of him at the finish on YouTube. Did most of our packing and preparing for our visit to Buxton starting tomorrow. Watched the rest of Missed Call, which was pretty good except that we didn’t feel drawn to the heroine. Quite a clever plot. Also watched some football and Songs of Praise, which was the Maundy service at St Asaph’s with the King and Queen in attendance. All the pomp and ceremony didn’t really fit with the theme of the service, but there you are. I guess if all Songs of Praise were like that, I’d soon stop watching. Ended the day by eating half a raw lemon with sugar – delicious! 

Monday – Mixture of cloud and sun, with a few drops of rain towards the end. Left Norwich at about 10.20, and Dot drove to Cambridge Services, where she bought a coffee and we used the facilities. Then I drove the rest of the way, along the A14, up the M1 and along the A50, then up to Ashbourne and along Derbyshire’s beautiful roads with their ludicrous, frustrating speed limits. Arrived at the hotel about 3pm after filling up with petrol at Morrisons.

Unpacked, then Dave and Julia drove us down into the town centre, where all the parking meters were not working, and the online alternative failed to work too. Eventually Dot popped into coffee shop, where they said parking was free at the moment. So we had a drink and cake, then returned to the hotel for a rest. Drink at 6.15pm – I had gin and tonic – then very nice meal, though I had to leave some. Tea afterwards for me while others had an additional drink. We managed to avoid getting blocked by a coachload of elderly people. Ha! Dave is obviously in difficulty with his hip and can’t move quickly, though he can drive. Julia also moves slowly after her operation. They make us feel quite brisk. 

Tuesday – Bright, sunny later and dry, but quite a cold wind. Wore my heavy coat. Up in time for breakfast. Spoke to waitress Ellie – the hotel is being sold to a walking group company! So this could be our last visit, though Julia refuses to accept that they can stop us coming. I think they can. The end of another era, like Adrian leaving Corwen. After breakfast (no connection) Dot had a sudden attack of diarrhoea, though she didn’t feel ill. This delayed our departure for Castleton.

We went by a roundabout route to take in a view of the Goyt valley and parked in the town centre.  We then had a drink at a small café before moving into town and visiting a few shops. Dot bought a small blue bracelet, and we looked at the shop where I bought a cap on an earlier occasion. Then back down to the main street, where we had lunch in another smallish café – coincidentally next to a woman who was close to us in the first café. There was something about her that reminded me of my grandmother, who was born not far away in Sheffield. I thought of asking her if she was called Booth or Duckenfield, but didn’t go through with it. As usual.

Dot and I walked a different way back to the car and found what we believe is the hotel we used to stay at when we visited Castletown many years ago. The Ramblers’ Rest. The alternative valley route got us back to the car about as quickly as the others, and I got some lovely pictures of ducklings. We drove back to Castleton via the stunning Winant’s Pass again, and got held up by heavy traffic as we entered the town. Back about 3pm for rest before evening meal. Had a bath: felt very tired, but revived for meal, which was good: I had sea bass and Dot fish and chips. Afterwards we talked quite a long time in bar while Norwich City beat Derby 2-1. Bed just after 10pm. 

Wednesday – Bright and dry, but again with a cold wind. Finished reading H is for Hawk: poetic and very unusual, about a young woman’s relationship with a goshawk after her father dies. Don’t think I would get on with the woman, but I now know 100% more about goshawks than I did before. After breakfast drove to Leek past some spectacular rocks and a traffic snarl-up.

Beyond Leek went to Rudyard Lake, where we had tea/coffee in the hotel and walked down to look at the quite spectacular reservoir. Then drove back to Leek and eventually found a parking space. Had lunch – toasted teacake – in the White Hart tearooms. Very nice. Then walked round town centre including market: bought chocolate but decided against a handbag and walked back to car. Obviously hard going for Dave. Drove back to Buxton taking a detour through some high moors and reached high point of about 1600ft. Of course our hotel in Buxton is over 1000ft.

Considering Rudyard Hotel for future meetings because of rumour already mentioned that Lee Wood is being sold to a group specialising in walking tours. Sharing hotel this week with large number of coach tourers. Nice food for supper – staff very considerate. I had steak and ale pie, and tea instead of sweet. Dot had curry and crème brûlée. Made speculative date for Blakeney in September. 

Thursday – Sunny, slightly warmer. Our last day at Buxton. Took picture of Ellie and paid bill, over £700.  After farewells, Dot and I walked down into town and bought some chocolates for Anne and Bridget, and for us. Dot also had a cup of tea. Dot felt tired after the walk back; so I drove first, and we went down the A6 and across on to the M1. Think the other route is quicker. Certainly easier.

I was feeling very tired by the time we reached the A14; so we stopped at the McDonald’s at Rothwell. Dot asked for help with ordering, and we were assisted by a delightful woman who took us through the whole process. Food was cheap and tasted good, but I did have an upset stomach later. Not the woman’s fault – she went out of her way to help. Dot drove from there, and we made a rare decision not to stop at Cambridge Services.

Usual hold up on A11 just outside Norwich, but not as bad as I thought it might be. We got home about 4.30, and Bridget was cleaning. Nice to see her.  Had a bit of a stomach upset – not sure why, but obviously suspicion fell on McDonald’s, although the bacon at breakfast wasn’t great. Didn’t feel well for most of evening. Got copy of unpleasant letter someone at the hospital sent to my doctor, implying I hadn’t followed instructions. Quite untrue.

Lay down and rested with Dot, then had a bath, followed by some soup. Watched University Challenge final, which was predictable, then Twenty Twenty Six, then Race Round the World, which was surprisingly good because of the unfamiliar setting (Turkey and Georgia) and the fact that all contestants were likeable. Felt a bit better at the end of the evening.

Centenary celebration

Part of the new St James Quay area close to the Puppet Theatre, incorporating
Typesetters Way and Printworks Drive

It was overcast at first, becoming brighter, on Saturday, April 11. Dry, too. Day of the big match against Ipswich, with large numbers of police on duty  and roads closed. Not sure how that was supposed to help: in fact when I drove Dot, Jonathan and Naomi to Carrow Road it was much, much easier than it had been last time, and the drive home was easy too. Played through En Passant chess games while the match was on. These included a win by me in 1976 against Laurie Pott, annotated generously by Mike. Meanwhile Norwich lost 2-0 to Ipswich, thanks partly to a very dubious penalty. D, J and N walked back surprisingly quickly.

Managed to work out how to review the guy who sold our new door to us, and did so – some of it written by Dot. Had light meal in the evening and watched two episodes of The Copenhagen Test before catching up with e-mails and clearing up. Earlier watched Grand National: my pick fell early on. Bit of a Panic Attack. 

Sunday – Bright with a cool wind. A few drops of rain around teatime. Dot left early for Wensum Valley hotel at Taverham and spent all day there for a Sillars centenary event – playing music with different conductors from the past and including some musicians from the past. Apparently I could have gone at the end for the performance, but I didn’t know that. Only a very few people did.

As Dot had the car I had to walk to church – chatted with Ciara on the way. Met Liz Cannon at entrance and had a chat with her too. Small congregation for Communion with Anna, Martin and Phil in band. Graham led and preached. People generally seemed pleased to see me. Walked back with Anna then crossed flyover on foot, which I think is prohibited, to get pix of Anglia Square buildings in process of demolition. Then on past Puppet Theatre and cut through to river through a new complex of streets and buildings, including Printworks Drive and Typesetters Way, or possibly vice versa. Crossed Jarrolds bridge and proceeded home. Very tired towards end. Over 7000 steps at that point.

Feet still hurt when I went to bed. Read a bit and recorded a few programmes. Dot home around 5.30. Had avocado and eggs around 7pm and watched last two episodes of The Other Bennet Sister (excellent) and The Capture (compelling but not convincing). Oh, and we watched EFL highlights. Penalty against Norwich very dubious, and one opponent  – Nunez – should definitely have been red-carded. 

Monday – Dry, reasonably warm. Caught up with a few phone tasks / texts, and after a very small lunch drove Dot to her violin lesson with Anna. Anna had been coming to ours, but she has a painful knee. While Dot was there I went for a short walk in Waterloo Park, which is much bigger than I thought, and then called on Ray, where we had a longish chat and a cup of tea. While I was there Judy called in with a meal for him.

Picked up Dot, who was waiting outside Anna’s – I was delayed by a closed road. They had a good time – I think Anna recognises how good Dot is, and Dot gets a lot out of her advice. Cooked salmon en croute, spoiled somewhat by dodgy vegetables. Later watched Match of the Day, with Spurs sliding into oblivion, where, barring miracles, they will play us next season. Arsenal are not looking much good either , and as for Werder Bremen (Kristine’s team)… Dot and I did some clearing up in the garden, and had a chat with Mark. Des and Chris got back from France, but I haven’t seen them yet. New back door scheduled for first two weeks in May. Feeling quite tired: feet sore. Dot still a bit swollen. 

Tuesday – Mainly sunny; quite warm. Had a bath, then Dot took car to be cleaned and to go to Boots. I meanwhile walked to Morrisons, where she joined me and we did some shopping. Then sat for a while in closed coffee shop before walking over to pick up car. They did a good job. I got in bins and reorganised interior of car. Then got the commode and walking frame ready to be picked up, which it was – half an hour early. Watched last two episodes of Hidden Assets, which were pretty good. Also University Challenge and a couple of other things. Cooked pies.

Earlier Des came round and we had a chat about his holiday, which was pretty good. Interestingly they have also had a puncture. Is there a tyre piercer about?  Could do without that. Dot did some washing. FaceTimed David around 10pm, and spoke to Amy too. She still has a cold but didn’t seem too bad. Spoke about Diderot design and football, among other things. 

Wednesday –   Largely dry and sunny, becoming cloudy in the evening. Dot left just before 10.30 to go and see Anne and have lunch with her at Woodton. Shortly afterwards, Bridget came to do the cleaning. We had quite a long chat about various matters, including church, her retirement and retreats we had been on, especially Little Gidding. She said she had erected a placard in her garden excouraging people to vote for the Liberal Democrats, because their candidate was a nice chap who went to their church. You can’t argue with that. As a result I wrote my first article for months, resurrecting all my favourite characters, such Henry (Fred) “Shrimp” Houseago.

Dot got back mid-afternoon, and as she had had lunch I did avocado and egg for supper. Meanwhile I had switched my Apple TV to the Barclays Bank free version, tried it out and it seemed much better. Hope they don’t keep charging me for the other one. Dot was picked up by Janet (and Nova) just after 7pm. She had a good session but forgot to take her phone; so I couldn’t track her coming home and couldn’t greet her at the door as I normally do. Watched European football before bed: Bayern Munich superb against Real Madrid, and Liverpool lost. Arsenal went through but didn’t look good. 

Thursday – Dry and reasonably warm. Took bus up to dentist with Dot and had check-up. She has no problem, but I need to have some decay removed on April 30; so put off cleaning till then. Afterwards went to John Lewis, bought a pillow and had a fruit scone each. Then walked down to Red Lion Street to catch bus, which contained Mary. I mentioned how the antibiotic nitrofurantoin affected me badly last November, and she knew of others who had had real problems with it. Dentist said it was not something he would prescribe (but then it’s not intended for oral problems). 

Back at home used leaf blower to get rid of tree seeds covering our front drive and slope. Very powerful. Then tried to fix shower fastening, but it defeated me. May have to get someone in. Frustrating. Can still use shower though. Shagged out, but cooked sausages for supper. Watched final three episodes of The Copenhagen Test, which was intriguing but not entirely convincing. Spoke to Mark earlier: his car is the same age as ours, and he was having to construct part of one of the indicator lights that had broken: impossible to get replacement.

Hidden behind daffodils

Cathedral, north transept

Easter Monday – Lovely day. Warm, clear and sunny. Had a bath and cleared up before travelling with Dot to North Walsham (she drove). Bought some flowers and fruit at Sainsburys, then went to the cemetery to put the flowers on the graves. Really beautiful there, Drove back and had lunch while listening to Norwich beat Millwall 1-2 in what sounded an excellent match. Then Dot did some more patio cleaning while I wrote up my blog. Felt quite odd: it would be nice to feel normal. Head seems full of gunge and blocked up, but not like a cold. Still onwards and upwards, or possibly downwards. As usual, felt better towards the end of the day. Cooked pies, and we watched an episode of The Capture, which may not be real, and a couple of other things, as well as football highlights. Trying out Dot’s pillow again.

Tuesday – another lovely day, sunny with a slightly cool wind but warm sun. Bit of a cock-up at the outset: because I hadn’t entered the pensioners’ coffee morning in the diary, I also arranged for a surveyor to look at the back door at 10.15am! So no coffee morning. Walked with Dot up Bishop Bridge Road to Cathedral and eventually found plaque commemorating Timothy Dudley-Smith, which was half-hidden behind some daffodils in the north transept. Had lunch in Refectory – very nice. Goats cheese on brioche bun for Dot and scone for me. Both excellent. Back home, assisted Dot by opening the Patio Magic faulty container and she used most of what was in there to clean the back garden patio. I contacted the people who remove medical equipment, and they’re coming soon to take the commode and walking frame.

Had trouble reaching Nikki, Bridget and Claire to sort out our giving a lift to Claire, whose foot is painful after her operation. It turned out Nikki was coming to Cake and Compline at Judy’s with Danny, who has a car. Meanwhile Bridget was at A&E after getting pricked by contaminated needles left in a waste bin.  She has to have three preventative injections. C&C was interesting – Danny is an Orthodox Church (Antioch) aficionado and gave us loads of information about it: not sure it was all accurate. Nikki was bubbly. They were late, and Vicky and Phil didn’t make it. Took song video to play on iPad, but it didn’t work: however, it did work on phone. No idea why. Quite late home. Earlier had salmon. 

Wednesday – Warm and sunny. Had a bath and read a bit more of Hawk book. After lunch (fried potatoes for me) we went to Morrisons and stocked up. Dot took time out for a coffee as usual. Spoke to Mark on way back about Norwich City (he went to Millwall) and eating in Norwich – a frequent topic. Had quite a long talk with Nikki on the phone. Washed spare room bed clothes and Dot redesigned her room as well as the utility room. Both look good. Watched quite a bit of TV including a brilliant 2026 on the model of 2012. Then caught Liverpool’s 2-0 loss to Paris St Germain, which should have been about 5-0. Cooked more salmon. And had blackberries. 

Thursday – Still quite warm, but cloudy with a little rain later. Met Sue and Roger Eagle for lunch at Rivolo, just over the river. Nice food, and enjoyable conversation, much of it to do with our various ailments, both current and historic. Actually Dot is progressing well – she walked there without a stick – and I am feeling quite a bit better, I think. Meanwhile Amy was arriving in Canada and is now safely ensconced at Anndale Court. We got home shortly after Bridget and had a chat before she resumed cleaning. Later I did avocado and egg on sourdough, and we watched an old episode of Vera and a couple of other things, including part of European football, part of Race Round the World (Greece) and University Challenge

Friday – Much cooler, grey but dry. After a bad night (heartburn because forgot pills c/w can of Coke maybe), I had a bath, then caught up a bit. Crackers and Parma ham. Turned on Des’s solar panels around noon: he’s due back late on Monday. Very poorly attended street meet: Ciara mysteriously claimed to have looked out but no-one was there. In fact it was Dot, me and Matt, plus a few minutes of Sam when she got home. While we were out there David FaceTimed with Amy, who has a cold. Oh, dear. Cooked smoked cod. Watched episode of The Copenhagen Test which, like The Capture, is impenetrable but somehow compelling. 

Busy Easter

Beautiful day at North Walsham cemetery

Wednesday, April 1 – Warmer and dry. Call to say car was ready – puncture fixed – I went over to pick it up before 10am. Seemed Ok. Cost £32. Then drove up to pharmacy with Dot to pick up her pills, and in an additional exciting adventure drove to the hospital for a physio update for Dot. She seems to be doing fine. Our next date is May 19.

When we got home we received a phone call from Angela to say that my aunt’s rings were worth £170, which is about £120 more than I expected. Bridget arrived to do cleaning, but we had only a short chat with her before Sam and Elliott arrived. Had quite a long talk with them before they departed for home – spoke about family tree and many other things. Elliott, now 12, has matured a lot and was good to be with. Sam seems to be doing well all round and is very likeable. His brother is not in such a happy place and seems to be obsessed with his alleged autism/neurodivergency. Sam did not say this: I am drawing conclusions. Pity, because he is talented in many ways. Sam and E stayed in guest cottage at Eckling Grange. Lucy is working and did not make the trip.

In the evening, after sausages, we watched the end of Seven Dials, an Agatha Christie mystery on Netflix, and an old episode of Endeavour which had similarities to The Wicker Man. Then we rearranged the living room in preparation for arrival of new chair. Also Amy FaceTimed and we talked about her coming to Ballater in June, among other things. Have now paid for cottage. All very exciting. Had been feeling odd all day, but felt better by bedtime, for some reason. Bridget has raised her charges, at our suggestion. Now £21 for 90 minutes. Reflects rising fuel costs… 

Thursday – Dry, quite bright but chilly. Had a bath, then around lunchtime drove to Morrisons with Dot and stocked up in a minor sort of way, then bought petrol  which had gone up to just over £1.50. Don’t really mind it being more expensive as long as I can get it. Two long trips in the offing: to Buxton later this month and to Ballater in mid-June. Because John (Digby) had put back his ETA to 4.15 we watched a bit of television. Also put commode and support thing in garage. Planning to ring a number I found on both items to have them collected or take them to where they’re needed.

John arrived with his daughter Sofia with our new chair, which we’re buying from him for £250. It has a high back and is adjustable. Sofia helped him to get it up to our living room, with a bit of assistance from me. She then went off to gym. When John was making sure it was ok (he had to take the legs off to get it upstairs) David FaceTimed and was able to see the rearranged room. Chair is quite comfortable and essentially supports my head. I’ve had a bit of trouble with my head recently. After he left with his bank transfer and we had a longer chat with David on other matters, I cooked some  salmon, which was not as good as usual for some reason. Then finished watching final two episodes of A Woman of Substance, which was good in one way – showing that revenge is not sweet – but deeply unsatisfactory in another – unpleasant people got the last laugh. Oh, well, as Peter Green would have said. Did say, in fact. 

Good Friday – Mixed cloud and sun, but dry. Cool wind. Toyed with the idea of going to an event at St Luke’s early on but in the decided to make sure Dot was all right, though she was happy for me to go. In the afternoon drove Dot to Carrow Road, and she managed to get a lift to the top. Then Jonathan and others looked after her. I met her on foot afterwards (City drew 1-1 with Portsmouth) and we walked home, running into Steve Fiske on the way. He seemed in good spirits.

While Dot was at the match I checked out the record player and played a couple of songs – Bert Jansch and Bob Dylan. Suddenly remembered that it was Friday and put out message that we’d be a bit late outside, because we were tired out. In the end Dot took a stool and I leant on something. Jonathan and Matt came out, and Joe for a while. Later cooked mediocre pizza, followed by hot cross buns and some fruit. Watched an old Vera, which was very good, and a Beyond Paradise that I found hard to follow because I kept dozing off. Head has been heavy again. Took some more paracetamol, but only one lot. 

Saturday – Cold wind , but dry. Had a bath and felt better in the morning but not too great in the afternoon. Watched the Boat Race, which was won by Oxford women and Cambridge men. Commentator (on Channel 4) pretty awful, and neither race was very exciting. Later watched Southampton beat Arsenal – deservedly – in FA Cup quarter final. Chelsea beat Port Vale 7-0 and Liverpool lost 4-0 to Manchester City.  Cooked some chicken that I had extracted from the freezer yesterday. Not great, but Dot liked it. We had banana and blackberries afterwards. Dot says she is walking more easily in bare feet. She also put some cleaner on the patio. In the evening we watched another episode of Hidden Assets. Very few steps. Odd sort of day. 

Easter Sunday –  Dry and quite pleasant after Storm David, which didn’t affect us much. But there’s been plenty of snow in Scotland. Dot and I went to Communion at St Luke’s, because there wasn’t one at St Augustine’s. Really good service, and nice welcome from vicar and others. Music was particularly good. Chatted to several people afterwards. We had already listened to a Communion on radio at which the new Archbishop preached, mentioning a desire for peace in the Middle East, as most people would. This was interpreted by BBC and others as using her sermon to call for an end to the war. In fact it was one or two sentences in a sermon about Easter. Journalists, huh?

Spent too much of the rest of the day watching TV, though we had a good FaceTime with David. I think he interpreted my new chair as a sign of advancing age, which it probably is. Had sea bream for supper, followed by hot cross buns. Videoed two of our favourite songs from Songs of Praise for use at Cake and Compline.  Also watched another episode of Hidden Assets and two of The Other Bennet Sister, which really is well done. Felt odd most of day, partly head and partly elsewhere. Not ill, though. Not yet, anyway. 

Lunch at Harrier and Ivy

Dot, Rodney and Angela in the Ivy

Thursday, March 26 – Quite cold, bit of wind. Dry.  Tidying up etc, then drove Dot to the Marsh Harrier for a very pleasant lunch with Allan and Julia. I had steak followed by a delicious blackberry and apple crumble with ice cream. Got home just in time for Bridget – 3.30. Had chat and cup of tea with her, then caught up with computer stuff. Had a light tea and then David FaceTimed, and we had quite a long talk. All seems well over there. Afterwards we watched Love Actually, which I think is a superb film, very clever in its construction and extremely funny. It also has great actors and is quite subtle in recognising different kinds of love. 

Friday – Cool with showers. Grey. Window cleaner came at 9.30; so had to get up. Then rep came to talk about new back door. Nice chap with local connections. Agreed to get new door and paid deposit. After lunch Kim came for chat and tea. She seemed tired – has probably been doing too much with her damaged hip. I took her part of the way home after we’d picked up my prescription pills from pharmacy. Dropped her near Maids Head.

No-one around for street meet and weather was bad; so did not go out. Mark getting home tomorrow. Des and Chris on holiday in France. Made salmon en croute and watched a bit of football – England v Uruguay – in which England were poor and Uruguay routinely fell over as if mortally wounded. Pretty pathetic. Then Beyond Paradise and an episode of A Woman of Substance . Had diarrhoea for no apparent reason. Bit of a headache. 

Saturday – Sunny at first; some rain; chilly and windy in the evening. Wrote two pieces for Parish Pump – one on the Great Exhibition of 1851 and the other on the General Strike of 1926. This was mainly (but not entirely) after I’d  taken Dot to rehearsals at St Catherine’s Church on Aylsham Road. After sardines on toast back home  I picked up Kim from near her flat and took her to Dot’s concert. We somehow managed to get a seat in the front row, which was fun, sitting next to Angela and Rodney. Also spoke to Adrian and Jane and to Mary and Neville, among others. Concert was very good, with music allegedly from every decade of the orchestra’s existence. Bit cold, though, as were interval drinks. Afterwards took Kim home: continuous talking from Nova, though I’m not sure what it was about. She gave me a bar of chocolate when we dropped her off at home. Watched a bit of news: little progress in Iran war. Might even be spreading. 

Palm Sunday – Clocks forward. Cloudy and dry at first, becoming windy and very wet in the evening. Did not go out but watched St Luke’s Communion on YouTube, then Songs of Praise. Dot watched Norwich City football while I caught up with messages and other things. Got quite a lot done. Had pies for supper, then watched two more episodes of The Other Bennet Sister, followed by The Capture, which becomes less credible by the minute but nevertheless very exciting. Speaking of less credible, the final episode of the current series of Death in Paradise reached new depths of impossibility. So impossible in fact that it became very funny. Buying chair from John Digby. Awaiting delivery date. Had diarrhoea again. Don’t know why. 

Monday – Cold, especially in wind. Snow over Glenshee. Felt dodgy, but could eat all right. Had a bath and did hard sudoku. After lunch put out bins and added a bit to the garden bin from leaves and overhanging twigs. Then answered e-mails. Felt better after second lot of paracetamol. Cooked salmon. Dot and I tidied up kitchen: looks much better. Watched first two episodes of Hidden Assets, which is not a game show but a thriller – and a very good one. Also University Challenge. Trying to rearrange visit from Sam after I got Dot’s hospital visit at the wrong time in the diary. 

Tuesday – Bit of a strange day. Sort of expecting Sam to call round in late afternoon, but he didn’t  – may come tomorrow. Dry and not too cold. Most of the day feeling quite below par, but decided to ignore it, and so quite enjoyed most of it, except the bit where I discovered one of my tyres was flat. Saw Mark early on and had a chat in the street: he seems glad to be back. A bit later Dot and I went up by bus to Red Lion Street and then walked to the Ivy, where we met Angela and Rodney and had lunch. Very good meal – a belated birthday present from them to us. I had a minute steak and one of my favourite sweets, whose name I’ve forgotten. Oh yes, crème brûlée – thank you, Dot. Also Provence rosé and tea to finish. Good service and had a long chat centring on Angela and John’s family tree, which I’m beginning to get the hang of. Left them with some minor jewellery from my aunt Thelma, which they confirmed was not worth very much, but will value at the shop.

Walked with them back to Red Lion Street, ,from where we got the 25 bus home, calling at the station to get some milk. But they didn’t have any. After some recovery time I checked the tyre and discovered that it had lost about 10psi in a couple of hours; so drove round to Kwik Fit and left it for the night. They will sort it first thing tomorrow. I hope. Then back home lay down for a while. Had some thawed hot cross buns and watched some of the Agatha Christie Seven Dials mystery on Netflix, plus a bit of the under-21 game on YouTube at Carrow Road between England and Moldova, which England won 4-1 without impressing. Norwich City’s Fisher came on towards the end.