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Shredding

Shredded paper from one drawer of my filing cabinet. Not including unshredded paper...
Shredded paper from one drawer of my filing cabinet. Not including unshredded paper...

Had intended to spend some time in London over the weekend, but received a phone call on Friday to say David C was ill, so we had some time at home instead. This was disappointing, but it did give us some extra time to play with – particularly useful as Dot was doing an inspection at Swaffham all day Friday, and we had been intending to travel down to Leyton directly afterwards, returning late on Saturday because I had to preach a sermon yesterday morning. Not the most relaxed of schedules. Instead I managed to start clearing out my filing cabinet, and this took longer than I had thought, mainly because of the amount of paper that needed to be shredded. My minuscule shredder was unable to deal with it, and I spent about as much time digging compacted paper out of that as I did on the filing cabinet itself, eventually ending up with a sackload of shredded paper late on Sunday afternoon. I also have a shredder that needs dismantling. And that’s just the first of four drawers – six if I decide to tackle the small cabinet as well. At least the other drawers don’t contain much paper that will need shredding.

Really good morning service – even the sermon wasn’t too bad – and the Ambient Wonder event in the evening was nothing if not ambitious, consisting largely of an enormous white womb space that people sat in. Theme: you guessed it – the Annunciation and pregnancy of Mary. Some quite inventive stuff. My Mary monologue was dusted off, and Dot played an angel. More type-casting.

Other than Christmas-card writing (mainly me) and present-wrapping (mainly Dot) we also managed to fit in a Thursday evening meal with two couples from church: the Kerrisons and the Roberts. There was a vegetarian among us, so Dot did a nut loaf which was the best veggie meal I’ve ever tasted.  Great evening altogether.

Legendary jackets

Back on the ground, and with shiny new wheels.
Back on the ground, and with shiny new wheels.

Haven’t been out of the house today: spent quite a bit of time writing Christmas cards, which is admittedly a bit of a chore, but on the plus side, it is nice to know we have that many friends. I have to prepare a sermon for Sunday, but so far haven’t got much further than choosing the hymns; however, I do have one or two ideas that I shall probably feel compelled to share. Yesterday’s Tuesday Group had a new member, Katherine, and a total of ten, which is about the most we can handle and remain comfortable. Am getting to be quite a dab hand on jacket potatoes: you may think there is nowhere to go wrong with jacket potatoes, but mine are becoming legendary – that’s not far short of mythical.

On Monday I played probably the worst game of chess I’ve played for a long time, missing two easy wins and then failing to mate with king and rook against rook because I was just too short of time. So it was a draw, and we play again in the new year, because it was a knockout competition. I can’t believe the things I overlooked. Is this the beginning of the end?

Saw the doctor the same day, and kept him busy for about 20 minutes. Pretty reassuring generally. Earlier went into town to buy some Christmas cards. Charity cards in the Forum and the Assembly House were less than seductive, so I decided to try the Christian Resources Centre, which came up trumps, with some excellent Tear Fund cards. Walked back through the cathedral, taking in the new hostry (sic), which is quite impressive. On Sunday we had toyed with the idea of going to Paston for a medieval Christmas concert, but managed to resist the temptation.  Saturday night turned out to be unexpectedly pleasant when we invited the next-door neighbours round on the spur of the moment for nibbles and drinks. They hit both with some enthusiasm, and the conversation was good too.

Wheels back on

Dot's car looking vulnerable without its wheels
Dot's car looking vulnerable without its wheels

That week went by pretty quickly. Perhaps because the weather was so awful much of the time. Very, very wet: not in a Cockermouth way, but persistently precipitating enough to really irritate. To be fair, there were some bright spells in between. Yesterday I went to the funeral of David Wright, a co-member of a Christian Writers’ group I used to belong to. Absolutely packed church, with a couple of dozen standing, and afterwards stunning afternoon sun over Mulbarton common. Lots of hymns – he was something of a hymns fanatic, though a bit of a polymath really. He and his wife wrote the Philip’s Children’s Atlas, which has sold millions. I quite enjoy funerals: there’s something uplifting about them. OK, I am weird.

The wheels are back on Dot’s car. Wicked Wheels returned them early – on Tuesday instead of Wednesday – and they did a great job. Really look like new. Quite a relief to have the car mobile again, and not looking as if it’s been vandalised.

Busy day yesterday: Dot was up at the surgery twice, seeing two different nurses about the skin on her arm. It turns out to be not serious: probably a fungal infection. Meanwhile I was seeing a physiotherapist – a former Norwich City FC physiotherapist, in fact, called Tim Sheppard. He gave my ankle a very thorough examination, and thinks the problem is that the muscle in my right leg is much weaker than the one in my left, possibly the result of my breaking the ankle while playing badminton centuries ago. Anyway, I have a series of exercises which should build it up and stop me falling over. After this I went to Mulbarton for the funeral while Dot went into the city. We got together again just after 3pm to visit her cousin Roger in his new place on the Heartsease estate. Really liked his house. Being an architect, he has managed to introduce some lovely touches. Then back home for supper before emerging again to go to the Bally Art Fair. Bought a few things as presents – some from Rupert, who seemed in good form. Mike’s big drawings were on show and looked terrific. Met Ali Whittle, and a few other people we know.

On Wednesday we went out to North Norfolk, first to visit Lucy at Paston, then on to the cemetery and later picking up  Jessie from the bus stop before having afternoon tea and mice pies (and sausage rolls) at hers. Lucy is much better in between chemo. Her father had a heart attack which alarmed everyone, but he is now recovering, it seems. Very resilient guy. Bet he makes it to 100.

Imprint of bird on kitchen window
Imprint of bird on kitchen window

This morning there was a mysterious crash as I was about to get out of bed. It appeared to have been caused by a large bird hitting the kitchen window, though no sign of an injured or dead bird outside. I took a picture of the imprint on the window, which came out quite well. Of course it could have been a small angel, though I suspect an angel would have seen the window and avoided it – or maybe just passed through.

On jacks

Dot got an iPod from David for her birthday. Amy and Oliver were fascinated.
Dot got an iPod from David for her birthday. Amy and Oliver were fascinated.

Cold and wet today; ventured into the city before lunch to make inquiries at the bank. Was amazed to discover that if I want to send money to someone in the United States I cannot do it online but have to obtain some kind of money order which, if I can’t get bank details from the payeee, will cost me £25. I then have to post it to the States. How archaic is that?

Dot’s car is up on jacks in the driveway and has been since last Friday, when Wicked Wheels came and revealed that they couldn’t match the colour without taking the wheels away. There is some damage to the rims, and Dot is having them done as a Christmas present. So they took the wheels away, leaving the car very vulnerable: have to say I’m quite nervous about it, but only two days to go now. Meanwhile we were also going to get her computer upgraded, as it’s very low on memory, but the quote we have for that is over £200, so now we’re wondering about getting a new Macbook Pro. Will have to consult my technical expert.

Went to the Muspole Street private view on Thursday evening and bought a couple of small things in return for some rather pleasant mulled wine. Some very creative stuff going on there. Problem with art: you can’t just keep on buying it. Joe and Birgit came round on Saturday, and we had a good meal which more than made up for Norwich City losing 3-1 to Carlisle in the second round of the F A Cup. This was a neat trick, as it avoided them going out in the third round, which is what they normally do. Why are they such an appalling cup team? Answers on a postcard…

Yesterday I found myself leading a Communion service, with John Easton playing the role of vicar. Because of widespread absenteeism and Rosemary’s fragility, I was landed with taking the Cup round, which I’ve never done before. It may be illegal, but John didn’t seem to think so. Anyway, I managed to avoid dropping it. In the evening we supplied the pizza for Ambient Wonder, and I didn’t realise that one of them was half polystyrene, so it stuck to the pan. Not terminally, I’m glad to say.

Just a day

Part of the disused Cumberland Hotel, victim of an arson attack this month
Part of the disused Cumberland Hotel, victim of an arson attack this month

Yesterday we were intending to take part in “Just This Day” – an attempt to unite as many people as possible in silent meditation at some point, spilling over into prayer for the world, particularly justice. We did sort of take part, but it didn’t turn out the way I anticipated. For a start the silence was mainly not only in the morning but in bed, as we were both exhausted after three or four busy days. Does silence while asleep count? I was viewing the rest of the day as a sort of sabbath, where I was abstaining from my normal technological output for a long time and generally keeping things restful and low key, which I guess a day of rest is supposed to be about. We listened to a DVD on body prayer, which didn’t quite do it for me, though it had its points, and Dot discovered a couple of versions of the Lord’s Prayer in Aramaic on a CD, which I did find extremely interesting. In fact, I’m thinking of inserting one of them into our Christmas event. Dot and I also went out for a walk along Thorpe Road, up Cotman Road and eventually back across the Rosary. Lovely crisp autumn day, with a nice sunset. Watched too much TV in the evening, though.

Today Dot is supposed to be writing her report following the inspection on Tuesday, so of course she’s clearing up the house and doing some washing. I’ve cleared up another binful of leaves, the current one having been emptied at lunchtime. It’s the time of year when fortnightly collections just aren’t enough.

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This is a picture of the City Hall lights mentioned in my last post. You can just about see the room I worked in for a couple of years: 1964 and 1965, to be precise, when I was a junior clerk in the city treasurer’s audit department. Often wonder what might have happened if I hadn’t left for London and a career in journalism. No contacts left from that time, though I had friends there: David Brown and Robin Larke among others. Not to mention Mimi, Jean, Sally, and Pam. Odd how two years of your life leaves no apparent residue – though I do still have the bookcase they gave me when I left. It is behind me as I write.

After dark

Christmas tree outshone by St Peter Mancroft.
Christmas tree outshone by St Peter Mancroft.

Had a great weekend with David and the children, although I was not feeling at my best. After dark on Saturday we went by bus up to St Stephen’s and then walked through Chapelfield Mall and across to the Forum, where they had a tall Christmas tree instead of an icing rink. To be honest, I was not terribly impressed: all it had was white lights. The children seemed quite happy though: the City Hall lights were much more striking, changing colour every minute or so. Walked home via the Arcade and London Street. Had home-made fish and chips (sausage for Amy) which I cooked, as it was Dot’s birthday weekend.

On the Sunday I had to preach and play guitar. Had found some interesting information about Hebrew letters and the first verse of the Bible, among other things. One of the congregation, who is studying poetry at UEA, was very interested and asked for more information, which I e-mailed to her later. Went to Prezzo’s for very good lunch, during which there was a fierce squall – high wind and fierce rain – outside. Happily it had passed by the time we went home, but the weather was still not good enough to go our in the afternoon, so we spent it playing games and watching a bit of football on television.

On Monday I didn’t see Dot after she departed to visit Barbara at about 3pm until late in the evening: she went on from Barbara’s to a governors’ meeting at Gillingham, and I played chess at the club against King’s Lynn. I didn’t play too well and eventually blundered a piece. The team won, but an extra point would have been useful. Today Dot has been out again, this time at Swaffham for a church school inspection. I’ve been preparing for Tuesday Group, but have also entered four poetry competitions.

Magical stars

Experimental picture taken after dark at Aldeburgh and digitally altered in a pretty basic way. Quite like it.
Experimental picture taken after dark at Aldeburgh and digitally altered in a pretty basic way. Quite like it.

Awaiting the arrival of David and grandchildren: weather mild. Have just been out briefly to book Prezzo’s for lunch tomorrow. Earlier I cleared up some more leaves: I’m becoming something of an expert. Last night was a big success: for Dot’s birthday dinner we went with the Robinsons to the Norfolk Mead hotel at Coltishall and had an excellent meal. Also very relaxed and quiet, so pretty well perfect. Afterwards we came out to see a sky full of bright stars. Magical.

Have just finished my talk for Sunday on Christ the King. Found it difficult to prepare, because I kept getting bogged down in fascinating byways as to the true meaning of certain words in the Hebrew and Aramaic. Have rewritten first verse of Genesis to read: At source, God filled the skies and the earth as an ox moving the plough towards its mark. Not exactly traditional; I may not mention it tomorrow. On the other hand…

Managed to draw my chess game on Wednesday by winning a pawn in the opening and getting a big advantage, then letting my opponent off the hook. Quite happy really, because he’s graded higher than me. Drove the entire team down there, so very late back. Meanwhile, Dot went to a DCC meeting, so she had to tell me all about it. Result: very late in bed.

Lots of activity on internet about leaked e-mails from UEA climate scientists which seem to reveal fiddling of data and some rather unpleasant tactics to silence sceptics. Phil Jones of UEA has apparently admitted they’re genuine. Will be interesting to see how the BBC manages to ignore this. By ignoring it, I suppose.

Dancing leaves

Ali Hollingsworth and Annette at the Peter Pears Gallery
Ali Hollingsworth and Annette at the Peter Pears Gallery

The wind has returned, but accompanied today by quite mild temperatures. I have just been outside clearing up leaves, with other leaves dancing around me. Quite fun. Meanwhile Dot has gone off to make a delivery at a school in Horsford, followed by a visit to the NYFC Christmas sale in Cringleford. Not sure what the latter is, exactly, but Dot feels she has to go, as she’s a trustee. Last night the Archers hosted the Tuesday Group, and we gave Matt a lift. He lent me The Defense, by Vladimir Nabokov, which I would already have started if Joy had not sent me The Chymical Wedding, which I am enjoying. Nice to have a good novel on the go and another waiting. Wrote a poem yesterday, but I’m not too sure about it.

On Monday I scored the second luckiest win of my chess career when I avoided a perpetual check because I thought I saw a win, and was then totally lost. I set one last trap, and for once my opponent fell into it. I am playing again this evening – at Diss, for the B team, and I don’t think my luck can continue much longer. I have won four games in a row.

Art and curry

Dot and Annette look at one of Ali's books at the Orford Ness exhibition.
Dot and Annette look at one of Ali's books at the Orford Ness exhibition.

Severe weather turned out not to be as severe in Norfolk as elsewhere, so we were able to travel south on Saturday, first to pick up Annette and Mike from Burston, near Diss, and then to proceed onwards to Aldeburgh. There had been heavy rain overnight, and it was certainly pretty windy, but no real problem until we almost got back to Burston, when we picked up a small but persistent branch underneath the car. I extracted it later by torchlight. The journey down through Suffolk was easy enough, and it was nice to return to Aldeburgh so soon. We were there to see the Orford Ness 2009 exhibition, in which friend Martin Laurance was exhibiting, He and his friend Ali Hollingsworth were part of the Stone Eye group, who had been given unusual access to Orford Ness by the National Trust in order to respond to it artistically. The result was an impressive exhibition – some brilliant paintings from Martin, and some quiet different but also fine work from Ali, who also makes books, combining words and pictures. Martin and Ali were invigilating, and we had quite a chat with them both. The show was in the Peter Pears gallery, which was totally transformed from when we saw it as part of the Poetry Festival: now open, airy and perfect for showing the work.

We drove back in the dark, but the rain had eased until it had almost stopped, and the wind has also dropped. Had curry with Mike and Annette and a long talk to the accompaniment of Leonard Cohen. Tried to persuade them to join Twitter, but don’t think I got very far. Annette showed us some of her new work, and so did Mike. His drawings are absolutely brilliant. If there were any justice, he would be making loads of money. Got back to Norwich earlier than I’d expected because I was going by the clock on their DVD recorder, which was still BST. Still, that was probably a Good Thing. Quiet day today after a good Holy Communion this morning. Music seemed to go well.

Delicious

Dot in lounge area at smallest cottage in Suffolk
Dot in lounge area at smallest cottage in Suffolk

Ventured out into soggy but mild morning so that the dentist could clean my teeth – which with the advance in dentistry is now more painful than root canal work. Not that I want root canal work… Happily my teeth seem to be OK, and so do Dot’s. She went earlier in the week. We’re both feeling quite a bit better, despite having a very late night last night. Sue, Roger, Julia and Allan came round for a truly delicious meal prepared by my talented wife, who also cleaned the house from top to bottom. Literally. I always feel uneasy when this happens: I’m not sure it’s because I suspect I might be cleaned up or because I feel guilty about not working as hard as she is. Not that I ever do. She has 75% of the energy in this house. In addition to all the above, she also spent most of the morning at a school in Horsford, while I wandered up to the city to buy her a birthday present, pay the newspaper bill and get a couple of keys cut. Had lengthy chat with Big Issue seller who has just obtained a place in a hostel at Wymondham, away from people who are a bad influence on him. Hope it works out.

Poet Joy has sent me a copy of  The Chymical Wedding, which looks interesting. Paul phoned me up about an angler named Paul Lenton who appeared in the newspaper, having caught something fishy at Doddington. He seemed quite interested when I suggested we could go and look at the Lenton / Archer graves at Yaxley and in Northamptonshire. He also told me Thelma’s maiden name: Harrop.