All posts by Tim Lenton

29 June 2009

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Warm has become hot, with occasional rain. This morning it is sunny, and Dot is about to go off to Hethersett to see her aunt and cousin. I had a bad night and am feeling pretty tired. The last three days have been full: on Friday and Saturday we were at St Luke’s all day as volunteers for the Martin Laird visit. Caught a bit of what he said, and liked it. Yesterday I led the service at St Augustine’s and fitted a bell in the loo, as requested by an occasional visitor who is disabled. I can foresee problems involving intrigued toddlers and am going to write a note to go with it – not that that will avoid the toddler problem: I suppose it could make it worse. In the afternoon Fred and Sue came round for tea. They were in Norfolk for the marriage of his sister Marjorie to Pat. We spent a stimulating afternoon together, starting with a cup of tea in the garden (pictured: the weather was warm enough even for me) and ending with a sort of high tea. As a result the pizza at Ambient Wonder  in the evening was a step too far, and I had only the slimmest slice before realising that I really, really wasn’t hungry.

25 June 2009

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Dot emerging from Baconsthorpe Castle, one of Norfolk’s great undiscovered ruins. Undiscovered by me, that is.

Today has been frustrating. I haven’t been able to get down to anything useful, largely because I keep putting off things I ought to do. Dot has had a busy day, with too many appointments to mention. She is now at Gillingham, or possibly on her way back. Earlier, while she was at a Diocesan House reception, I was helping to prepare St Luke’s for the visit of Martin Laird tomorrow and Saturday. Picked up some stuff from St Augustine’s with Howard and put some labels together with Margaret after long chat with Steve Fiske about his visit to Download, which I think is a music festival.

Last night saw Habeas Corpus with Dot at the Maddermarket. Brilliant Alan Bennett play, splendidly acted: really enjoyable with a very funny script. Weather very warm last two days.

24 June 2009

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Dot and I decided to take a day off yesterday and, after leaving the MX5 to be MOT-tested, we went to Blakeney for lunch at the Manor Hotel (fried whitebait for me), then walked out along the quay before moving on to Cley, where we parked at the visitor centre and walked out to the hides. Very chill wind blowing directly into the hide, but if you could get out of the wind, it was a beautifully sunny and warm day. Got out of the wind for a while among the reeds, and tried to identify a few flowers and birds. While we were briefly in the hide, a birder kindly let us look through his new bit of kit and we saw a spoonbill and a redshank, which I believe are birds. From there to Cley Green, a beautifully green and quiet spot about a mile inland, with an excellent pub and outstandingly large church, which had not only bats but what appeared to be house martins nesting in the porch. Or church martins. Of course they could have been spoonbills or redshanks. (Dot is pictured in the pub garden, quietly pleased.)

Took a look at a beautiful slate carving in the memorial garden by Philippa, who I met at the Twenty Group party. It was in memory of former Cathedral Dean Alan Webster, who I noticed planted a tree on the riverside walk in 1972. Have written a poem partly inspired by memorials, trees, slate and the passing of time.

Eight at Tuesday Group last night, and it was warm enough to eat outside. Very sheltered in the back garden. Dot has now departed for Dickleburgh, to visit a school there. I have received the paperwork for my operation and discovered it was for a slightly different operation. I checked, and all is OK.

By the way, I lost my chess game on Monday. Misplayed the opening, and never recovered. Last of the season: I like to finish on a low note.

31 May 2009

Bit nervous because the computer is going in tomorrow morning to have its long-standing video RAM problem fixed. I shall be without it for two or three days. Aargh! I expect I shall manage.

The picture is of Sophie Robinson and groom Richard Smith emerging from Shotesham Church yesterday and getting surrounded by confetti. Their wedding day couldn’t have been more perfect. The sky was blue, and the weather pleasantly warm without being sweltering. Dot and I started it by having our hair cut, then hastened to Dunston Hall to meet the Walpoles, who were over from Canada for the occasion. We had a sandwich, then headed for Shotesham. I made the mistake of letting the Walpoles go first: they had a sat-nav which took us a long way round and eventually got us heading for the Suffolk border. After a brief consultation I led the way back and found Shotesham without much trouble. Still in good time, fortunately.

The service was very good, and I got a lot of interesting photographs afterwards before we all headed south (correctly this time) for Hoxne, home of the groom’s parents, where the reception was held. We went our own way and managed to emerge on to the A140 ahead of the bridal car, but by the time we had parked in a field at the village they had arrived. The usual long hiatus between service and meal was made actually enjoyable by the amazing garden, which had several levels, a pond, a stream, a hill and a Celtic cross, not to mention a couple of fairground organs in working order. We took advantage of the many hors d’ouevres and a couple of Pimms and chatted to the Walpoles and the Robinsons, who had eventually arrived.

Very pleasant meal, and an amazingly good speech by Philip, the bride’s father, who used one of my jokes. Chatted for quite a while afterwards with Peter and Karol; also with Jean and Alan, friends of Anne’s from Mitcham days. Eventually a band came on the scene and were very good value. Dot and I had two or three dances. Too loud to talk, though, and we left by about 9.30pm.
Sophie looked lovely and very happy throughout, and her two sisters were stunning bridesmaids. As we left the party was resurrecting with barbecue and a bar, and many more people arriving.

Earlier in the week – on Thursday – my aunt Josephine invited us to a family meal at Oaklands Hotel, which was a very good carvery. Present were Phil and Joy, Joe and Birgit, Paul and of course Josphine, Dot and me. Also present unexpectedly was one of Dot’s childhood friends, Carol, who accosted me in the carvery queue, and who I thankfully recognised. Another very pleasant time. Josephine looked well, and Paul apparently hasn’t an ache in his body at the age of 85, going on 60.

The weather has entered a very warm and calm spell, timed to coincide with the return of the Murrays to Canada, where the weather is apparently not so good. This afternoon we went to Adrian Ward’s Open Studios exhibition at Cringleford and had a pleasant chat. We bought some of his photographic cards. Now, after some time in the garden tying up…oh, one of those plants…and watching the birds, Dot is preparing for a day of philosophy in a Yarmouth school tomorrow. Anne’s school, in fact. There could be some wedding talk.

27 May 2009

Bit of a gap there, but we’ve been so busy careering here and there with the Murrays that there’s been no time to stop and write it up. They left on the 9 o’clock train today and should be boarding the plane about now (3pm). The picture is of them and Dot emerging from an hour or so on the beach at Holkham on Saturday, during which we saw the tide coming in and several groups having to wade across the stream to safety. Quite exciting – but not very, very exciting. We had been hoping for a group of dwarves to attempt it. Earlier that day we had visited Wells (including the wonderful Big Blue Sky), had traditional fish and chips on the quay and moved on to a tea shop at Holkham, plus the very tempting Adnams kitchen and wine shop, to which we succumbed. After the beach we drove back home through the Holkham estate.

I see I have slipped out of sequence. Let us return to last Monday (the 18th), where we spent David’s birthday with him and the grandchildren. First we all took David to Loch Fyne restaurant in St Albans, which was superb – both food and setting. Then we were joined by the children at Winchfield and had a hectic remainder of the afternoon, with Oliver showing his skill at football, which is considerable, and Amy organising an outstanding game of hide-and-seek. It was a really nice day altogether. We left just after six and had an easy drive home.

The following day we went to London on the train and took the tube to Westminster Bridge, which we crossed, paying tribute to Wordsworth as we did so. I feel I may have underestimated Wordsworth. Then an awful hot dog in a cafe (me only; the others had something more palatable) before we proceeded to the Eye, which was brilliant. No long queue, and we were in our pod way before our due time. The weather was good (showery, but dry at this point) and clear, and it was well worth the money and effort. We then walked up to Tate Modern, taking in a gallery on the way, and popped briefly inside before crossing the Millennium Bridge to St Paul’s, where we took the underground to Oxford Circus. After a brief trot in the wrong direction, we then walked down Regent Street, taking in a few shops (Burberry’s loo is excellent, and Hamley’s toy attack too overwhelming). Found another gallery – Haunch of Venison – but weren’t impressed by what was on show, though the building itself was superb. Down Burlington Arcade and a brief foray into Fortnum and Mason’s before arriving for tea at the Ritz. Superb. Tube from Green Park back to Liverpool Street and so to bed. Well, after we got home, that is. Another great day.

The next day we went for something a little more leisurely, hiring a Broads day boat from Stalham (Moonfleet Marine) for five hours and taking in Barton Broad, How Hill and Wayford Bridge. Very pleasant weather, if not quite hot enough for Barbara. We rounded off the day with dinner at Morston Hall, which I have to say was very good indeed. On the Thursday Dot was working, so I took the Murrays to the Castle Museum (via the Cathedral). Roger did his best to knock himself out on the Castle wall, but just failed, though he was stunned for a while. We proceeded to the Caffe Italia, where we had a light lunch. Dot had been intending to join us there, but was late back, so we walked to the Art Shop in St Benedict’s, where Roger had been hoping to buy some revolutionary new acrylic paint. But no luck, and it started raining heavily, so I phoned Dot, who by this time was at home, and she came and picked us up. Barbara and Dot went shopping in the afternoon, and in the evening we all went to the Maddermarket to see Terence Rattigan’s Separate Tables, which was very well done. Met several ex-EDP folk – Frank Gordon, Trevor Burton and (after about 20 years) Jack and Sylvia Gordon. Sandra was also there, painting the scenery. Actually, I think she had finished painting it.

Next morning (Friday – try to keep up) I took Roger and Barbara on a seven-mile walk at Caistor. Dot was at a SIAS training day at Brome. Very pleasant walking weather – not too hot – and it went very well, though I was pretty desperate for the loo at the end. Having problems in that area at the moment. Restricted flow. Roger located the mystery acrylic at Jarrolds in the afternoon, and in the evening Dot took the Murrays to the Last Wine Bar while I went to the final night party for Voicing Visions. Knew almost no-one there except Ruthli and her husband, who invited me to tea on their lawn at my convenience, which was nice. Fortified by some very acceptable white wine, I talked to some very nice people, including Alison, who works at Waterstone’s, and Philippa, who is a stone carver and works for David Holgate. She introduced my to Joyce Dunbar, also a poet but primarily quite a well-known writer of children’s books. Left after an hour and a half and met the others as they were finishing their meal.

Saturday we have covered, and on Sunday the Murrays went to Suffolk for a family meal while after church I went to Paston to stand in for Lisa at the Art Alive project following her poetry walk. We returned there the following day with the Murrays to look at the book and the church. Brigitte was there again in medieval costume – never seen her in anything else. Perhaps she is medieval. Jo Berry showed me how to make paper. Called in at Knapton and Edingthorpe churches before proceeding to Elderton Lodge for another pleasant meal. Then on to Rosie’s for tea and buns and a walk round the garden.

Completed the Norfolk rose round the following day, which started out very wet but dried out, by having tea with Peter and Jean at the Beales Sweet Briar Bistro and then looking round their gardens and shop. After that went for lunch at Dunston Hall after calling at a farm shop in Mulbarton. Ended the day with fillet steak and chips at home. During their visit Roger and Barbara saw all 13 episodes of the first season of Battlestar Galactica. Apparently there are four seasons and 73 episodes altogether. Ended up feeling more sympathy for the Cylons than the humans, which can’t be right, can it? Perhaps I’m not human. I probably wouldn’t know.

18 May 2009

Dot and Barbara suitably attired for sailing in Blakeney harbour, and a little concerned that they should have had bespoke versions.

Roger and Barbara visited Essex in a hire car on Saturday: I paid a second visit to Voicing Visions and managed to see a lot more than I had at the private view. Was quite impressed by some of the poems, as well as the visual art. In the evening had a meal for eight – Anna and Howard, Anne and Philip joining us. Really brilliant evening. All went to church on Sunday, then to Open Studios at Art Factory; met Rupert and Shirley, Annette, Martin, Rosalind, and Georgina Warne. Some stunning pictures by Mike in traditional style, but with an edge, as Paul Cracknell would say. In the evening went to Caffe Uno for another good meal. Today we’re about to drive to Caddington for David’s birthday and a meal at St Albans. Weather has been windy but mainly – though not entirely – dry.

16 May 2009

Dot and Barbara feeling totally at home at Sandringham. This is a small “house” in the grounds where one of the royals used to go and sit, watching the lake. Sandringham was surprisingly beautiful. Lovely grounds, and the tour of the house was made so much more interesting by the guides, who were totally up to the brim with knowledge of its history, and good at putting it over. We were there on Wednesday, and the weather wasn’t bad – quite a bit of sun, though pretty windy. After Sandringham we drove to Wolferton, then Burnham Market, where there was a wandering round of the shops. In the evening a late decision found us at the Playhouse, where we saw an excellent concert involving a Russian violinist and English pianist, and someone who turned the pages. She tried to stay in the background, but she couldn’t prevent us from seeing how good a job she was doing.

Thursday was much duller, but the wind had dropped just enough for us to go sailing in Blakeney harbour, starting at Morston, with Norfolk Etc. We were captained by a brilliant young Aberdonian called Colin, who was not only extremely proficient, as you might have expected, but also friendly and entertaining. We all had to wear all-over waterproofs that did nothing for the normally glamorous picture that Dot and Barbara present to the world. We landed on the point and walked over to the other side before returning on the last of the tide. Afterwards the normal beautifully presented lunch at Cookies (Salthouse), plus a visit to a wildlife art exhibition at Glandford and then afternoon tea at Blakeney Hotel, in the first-floor lounge overlooking the estuary. Quite a full day, topped off by watching a DVD at home – Aeon Flux, which was fun, but not as good as Star Trek, which we saw at the ciinema the following evening. Much better than the original TV series, with strong characterisation and script and an interesting plot. Kept me glued to my seat for two hours.

Earlier we’d visited the Time and Tide Museum at Yarmouth. Not my first time, but first for everyone else. Wonderful museum, highly recommended. Followed by a snack at the attached Silver Darlings cafe and a windy walk in the valley at Winterton.

12 May 2009

This is the article I mentioned last time. No, I know you can’t read it, but it’s evidence…

Dot and Anne returned safely from the hen night just after 1am. Dot extremely unimpressed with the night club they went to: the drinks were sweet and unpleasant, and the alcohol content was barely detectable; the noise felt as if it was destroying body tissue. They had a good meal at Cafe Uno first, though.

Haven’t been particularly well, but got through Sunday “in charge” at St Augustine’s. At about one minute to 11, there were about three people there. We ended up with 22, which isn’t bad. Felt it went quite well. After lunch (and watching the F1 Grand Prix from Barcelona, which Button won), we went out to North Walsham, left flowers in the cemetery, where the wind was way beyond chilly, and ended up at Jessie’s for tea and cake, which is always very enjoyable.

Yesterday we had a mammoth shop at Waitrose – at £145 the most I’ve ever spent in one go on food – in preparation for the arrival of the Murrays from Canada. As I write they are on the 10am from Liverpool Street, having spent an age crossing London in a taxi. Fortunately I have just found an energy bar called Trek, which is tasty and might see me through the first few minutes… Dot has gone to the supermarket to get some flowers, and possibly potatoes. Well, you never know, do you?

9 May 2009

Yes, it’s Dot again, setting out for a hen night with her friend Anne. Norwich on full alert. The hen night is for Anne’s daughter Sophie, who is getting married at the end of the month. Meanwhile, a quiet evening for me, which is just as well, as I’m not feeling at my peak. I’m back on antibiotics, this time long-term, in a bid to get rid of my urine infection. Sorry to keep mentioning it. It’s a bit painful today, which is unusual: normally it just makes me feel generally unwell. Hope for an upturn by tomorrow, when I’m leading and preaching, and probably leading prayers as well. Suspect no-one else is going to be there.

Anyway, I did win my chess game on Monday night, which gave me 5/8 in the tournament and possible promotion to the first division next year. The next day Dot and I embarked by train to Scarborough for an overnight stay. Very pleasant journey both ways (especially coming home) with everything running to time – or very nearly. Dave and Julia met us and we had a long talk at their apartment, then walked down the cliff path to the beach, which was beautiful, along the front to the harbour and back up to the station , where we caught the bus back to the apartment, using our free bus passes! Julia provided an Indian meal of suprising hotness. Slept well, and the next day we went to Thornton-le-Dale, a beautiful village sadly (or perhaps deliberately) undersold by its website. We went for a walk of just under two miles and managed to avoid the rain. Then to a farm shop / restaurant, where we had lunch, which consisted mainly of (very good) sandwiches. After a detour down the wonderful Forge Valley, not to be confused with the more famous Valley Forge, which is in another country and besides, the wench is dead. (Sorry – obscure literary reference). Then by a slightly devious route to Scarborough Station, where we caught the train we meant to and changed at Grantham. The conductor said Peterborough, but that would have been a mistake, as the train we took from York did not stop there and we would have arrived bewildered at Stevenage, which is not something you’d want to happen.

Since then I’ve been to the dentist to have a filling built up, which was far less painful than the cleaning I’d had done a week or so ago. And today we both had our hair cut. How exciting is that? Meanwhile I’ve been rushing around sorting out various matters, mainly financial, and have managed to write a sermon to boot. Well, not to boot exactly, although that could be the reaction. Weather has been a bit on the chilly side, but nothing too unseasonal. We’re hoping for summer next week, when the Murrays arrive by train from Canada. After catching the plane first, of course.

Keiron Pim did a big article in the EDP this week about Voicing Visions, the Norwich 20 Group art and poetry exhibition which opens next week. I was quoted extensively, and Sandra’s picture dominated the page. My poem was also used. Can’t grumble about that, can you?