All posts by Tim Lenton

8 February 2008

Dot and our friend Joan pictured during a walk down the Yare Valley from Cringleford to the University Broad yesterday. We returned on the other bank, through some woods and up on to Colney Lane, which has been closed to through traffic – making a rather exclusive and semi-private little community. Can’t imagine how that happened.

Joan, who taught with Dot at Muswell Hill around 1970, stayed overnight on Wednesday, after arriving just after lunch, which Dot and I had enjoyed with her aunt Jessie at Caffe Italia. Jessie was in the city to visit her husband, who was taken into hospital on Monday when his illness worsened suddenly. But he is doing remarkably well there.

Had a cup of tea with Jackie Willis on Tuesday in the massive Sainsburys store at Longwater – first time I’ve been in there. She has set up a company, Care Motoring, to teach driving in a more thorough way, hopefully improving road safety. Many of her clients are people who have already passed the test. We met some time ago when I was writing about road safety in the Eastern Daily Press.

Incidentally, the EDP has finally got round to mentioning that my page has ended after 11 years. They’ve put my farewell page on their website, and it contains a reference to my own website, though they may not have noticed. Seems a bit more satisfying: I had been feeling rather in limbo. I’ve been putting the occasional commentary piece on my website and hope to carry on doing so.

Dot has done another church school inspection – at Salhouse – which turned out to be a bit fraught through no fault of the school’s. She was pretty tired when she got home (Shrove Tuesday); fortunately I was cooking for our normal Tuesday invitation meal, and we all managed to stay awake. Well, more or less. Must have been the pancakes, courtesy of friend Bridget.

Last night we had a very lengthy DCC meeting covering a multiplicity of church topics. Never really enjoy these: I’m not very good in meetings and find it hard to balance between not taking part at all and being more forceful than I mean to be. We have agreed to drop our Ditchingham weekend this year, which will disappoint a few people, including us. Everything is changing, it seems.

Lovely weather yesterday for our walk down the Yare: a bit chilly, but dry and a certain amount of sun. It seems much the same today. An article in the EDP today said we need to get used to not having winter – so stand by for several feet of snow over half-term. Still, a case of wine has just arrived from Cooden Cellars, so we will probably survive.

Have been having an exchange of e-mails with Jeanette Eglington, who is Beverley’s half-sister and my cousin once removed. She also lives in South Africa and has given me more information about the family, which I am about to insert in my tree on Genes Reunited. Great to be in touch with her and Bev, and to find out more about the African branch of the Lentons.

4 February 2008

This picture was taken only about half an hour after yesterday’s, which sort of shows how fast the snow was melting. All gone now, of course. Today is bright and not so cold.

Spent a lot of yesterday watching TV – even sat right through Calendar Girls, which we’d seen before in Florida. Compelling stuff, obviously. Most of the time, though, I was watching rugby and got quite excited when Wales came back to beat England, totally unexpectedly. I watched it a day late, and Dot did well to keep the result from me. I’m trying hard to like England and was doing well until their exciting winger, Strettle, got injured after a brilliant run. I’m very worried that England will now revert to the boring forward-centred game they seem to think is so wonderful. I prefer brilliance to efficiency, which is why I wasn’t too distraught by Scotland’s loss to France, even though I’m very pro-Scotland.

3 February 2008

Snow hit East Anglia early on Friday evening, just as Dot was about to go to a friend’s house for a meeting of Dangerous Women. They don’t call themselves that: I call them that. As she felt she might like to drink a drop or two of alcohol, I gave her a lift. A short drive, but interesting, with blizzard-lite conditions constantly threatening to get worse. Made it there and back OK, and fortunately she was given a lift home by one of the more spectacular DW, by which time conditions had improved.

By Saturday morning there was a fair bit of snow remaining, as can be seen on the picture, but it melted very rapidly. We stood at the bedroom window watching little avalanches of snow falling off the roofs opposite.

It was very cold still, and the road remained slippery on our little hill, so we drove to the supermarket together before returning for an InPrint meeting at our house. We discussed the future of the group, news of which will appear on the InPrint website soon, then Dot and I took Annette out to Paston for the launch of the Paston Project. This consisted of a Latin Compline in a barely heated church, lit by candles. Quite a strange experience: it felt as if we were secretly carrying out some illegal rite under cover of darkness. On the other hand, there was mulled wine and nibbles afterwards.

Making my way back to the car through a fair amount of mud, I managed to slip over, but happily without dire consequence, other than caking my coat in mud. One other unexpected result was that when we returned home (dropping Annette at Lisa’s to pick up her car) I must have got some mud from my key into the lock, because this morning I couldn’t lock it from outside. I had to lock it from inside and go out the back door, which meant in turn that when we got back after church lunch (outrageously delicious chicken) and entered by the back, the alarm went off. As I was anticipating it, I was able to disable it in seconds, so I don’t think we caused any disturbance. Afterwards I freed the lock using WD40.

1 February 2008

Two roses in front of quite a lot of thorns. Amy and Dot walking the Whitlingham path last weekend. Today the weather has been sunny but bitterly cold, and snow is apparently on the way. Yesterday was extremely wintry, with sleet and high winds, but I managed to get into a break between the showers, and bussed up to get Andrew’s money.

Today I drove down to Annette’s then – after picking up her car from a “garage” in the middle of several fields at the end of a track, and after she then taxed it – she drove us to Colchester to pick up the PVM from The Minories. We were given a hand to transport it to the car via Rupert’s trolley. The Minories is being abandoned because its lease has come to an end, and the spectacular new building isn’t finished yet. The PVM made a measly £27 during its six-week stay, and I didn’t sell any books.

Had a chat with Annette about the future of InPrint. The feeling generally seems to be that we may be heading for a looser group with less ongoing commitment. But we’ll see at the meeting tomorrow. Sadly, I seem to be getting a cold, which is not helpful.

On Tuesday I went by train to Hull to assess the four reporters at the Hull Daily Mail. Weather was quite good both days – especially so on the way back, and the trains were amazingly prompt. Going up I had one change at Grantham, which was about as good as it gets. Coming back earlier than I had anticipated, I had to change three times, at Doncaster, Peterborough and Ely. All trains were pretty full, especially the Stansted Express (Peterborough-Ely). Best run was Doncaster-Peterborough on the very fast National Express to King’s Cross. These are very frequent, quite luxurious and make you realise what you’re missing living on an outcrop like Norfolk.

I was favourably impressed by Hull Trains – clean and modern – and by the station staff. I went to the inquiry desk to ask where I had to change on the way back, and the clerk quickly (very quickly: I had hardly finished talking) produced a slip of paper with all the details very clearly set out. At the Pumpkin buffet on the station the woman in charge was also highly efficient and clear about what was on offer. The Ibis Hotel was good too, though basic. Had fish and chips in the evening which was excellent, as was the continental breakfast. What they offered generally was limited but quite sufficient, and just the job, really.

The trainees did very well, and three of the four just have to complete their shorthand to finish their NVQs. Sadly, this may not be as easy as they think it will be. The date of my next visit has been left open.

29 January 2008

We enjoyed Whitlingham so much that we returned there on Sunday with Vicky and the children while David watched Spurs lose 3-1 to Liverpool in the FA Cup. Parts of it are very picturesque, the only problem being that it tends to be overrun by welly-wearing dog walkers talking intensely about cultural matters. Oliver went on ahead, and we found this lovely spot by the Broad as the sun was progressing down the sky: a small wooden landing stage about 30 yards off the main path. I shot the picture into the sun (of course) and told Oliver that he would be in shadow, which intrigued him. He didn’t seem to like the idea, but it made a good photo. Well, I like it.

Had a really good weekend altogether – went into the city on the Saturday to swap one of Oliver’s Christmas presents at John Lewis (he’d been given the same thing by two different people: I’m amazed it doesn’t happen more often). I used the opportunity to buy a new guitar tuner before rushing home in advance of the others to turn on the lamb stew. Quite nice weather, though coldish.

Went to church on the Sunday in the morning to do the music and wished I hadn’t. The two of them would have done just as well without me – “just as well” in this case meaning pretty bad. Tendency to rehearse in meticulous detail and then forget it entirely during the actual service.

Actually won a chess game last night: I was offered a draw in a position where my opponent had lots of pressure, but decided to carry on because I couldn’t see anything forcing and assumed he couldn’t either. Eventually won a long endgame, which was satisfying.

Today I head north to Hull – by train for the first time. The weather forecast is not good, but at the moment it’s fine here.

Still nothing in the EDP about my page ending, and no sign of the last one as promised – even though they had a stand-in piece today. I have tried to ring the deputy editor, but he’s not there. Again.

And Rupert has resigned from InPrint, which is a tremendous blow, as he was the driving force. I think he became fed up with being the driving force. So a few of us are having a meeting on Saturday to see where we’re going. More news when we find out.

22 January 2008

This is Eddie, my cousin’s daughter’s child, who paid us a visit on Saturday, together with his grandparents and mum and dad. To me he looks exactly as his father (also Eddie) did when he was a child. They all came for a meal, and he was extremely well behaved and quite delightful. The five of them were up in Norwich for the weekend, which was bad luck as far as the weather went. For many days now – until today – it has been overbearingly grey, with plenty of rain.

Today we had some blue sky, the wind dropped, and it was pleasant. Dot and I took the opportunity to get out of the house and walked round the Broad at Whitlingham. I took a few pictures, some of which turned out very well. I have invested in a new fast memory card and a gorillapod – a small tripod that can be used to stabilise the camera practically anywhere.

Last night I travelled to Lowestoft to play chess – and lost again after getting a reasonably good position. Either my judgement is totally shot, or I’m getting too old to sustain concentration, or I’m very unlucky. The last is obviously favourite. Gave a lift to a teammate who I discovered is a paramedic: clearly I shall have to give him more lifts. Just in case.

I’ve sorted out my photographs on iPhoto up to the Event stage: I now have 56 events, and my next task is to tag all the pictures. Put three of this afternoon’s pictures on Flickr.

On Sunday we had an alternative guy called Adrian joining us on guitar – in short space of time he managed to upset pretty well everybody, and I have to hope he doesn’t show up next week. Not the right attitude, I know. The evening’s Ambient Wonder event was excellent, with a good attendance despite teeming rain. The theme was “new beginnings”: not strikingly original, but it was refreshingly unusual and left everyone – as far as one could tell – feeling optimistic.

This feeling disappeared for me yesterday when there was still no mention of my page ending in the paper, and no sign of the final page appearing. Felt quite low most of the day, alleviated in the afternoon by a visit to Jessie’s. Today my replacement was described as our “controversial new columnist”, but I haven’t seen him write anything controversial yet. Even Ms P R Bland-Bland still has her page. Bitter? Me?

18 January 2008

A nice picture of grandson Oliver in serious mood. He and Amy are now taking swimming lessons.

I have some kind of scalp irritation around my right ear which makes it difficult to wear my glasses. As I can’t see close up without them, this is rather annoying. Still, it’s not painful, and I feel quite good otherwise. I’m down to 12st 5lb, which is not bad going.

We were going to have some friends round on Wednesday, but they could not come for family reasons – her father is very ill – so we were on our own after LD called with a letter of thanks about the Rohr event and stayed for tea and chat while Dot finished the ironing. Earlier I had patched up some wood on our back porch that was seriously coming apart, using wood filler that I moulded around the problem and then discovered shouldn’t come into contact with my skin. However, I have pretty resilient skin, and nothing seems to be amiss. Both hands are still attached to my arms. The result looks a mess but is rock solid: I see it as temporary until we can get the wood replaced. Dot is now thinking of swapping the contents of two of the upstairs bedrooms, which would involve a carpenter since her work area is attached to the wall. Maybe we would be able to combine the two jobs…

Meanwhile she is moving furniture round the living room – an activity she prefers to writing a book, which is understandable. She has a tape measure and is measuring everything. Bit unsettling.

Yesterday was Powerflush Day. Not a new national holiday, but a cleaning out of our central heating system. Clearly we had left it far too long. Huge amounts of sludge emerged, and the already big job expanded into something massive, with new pump and various other items. Fortunately we are over 60 and get it at about half price, but it’s still pretty expensive. On the plus side, the radiators now seem to be working: they had been gradually falling by the wayside. The British Gas engineer was extremely friendly and helpful, and rang back today to make sure everything was OK. I think it is.

While he was here he discovered that the lagging on our big cold tank was waterlogged – ie it had fallen into the water. Did it fall or was it pushed? If it was pushed, it must have been a long time ago. Getting it out was a tricky job, but I managed it with some help from Dot and only a small amount of water dripping down the pipe into the airing cupboard. It is now drying out in the garage, but we’ll probably get a new set, as we professionals call tank lagging.

Today I’ve started work on a book based on the characters in my EDP page. Working title: The Houseago Prophecy. Yesterday there was a letter in the EDP taking my name in vain for no apparent reason, so I replied to it, mentioning that alert readers might have noticed that my page had come to an end, expired, ceased to be, etc. This provoked a couple of e-mails sympathising – one from Bruce and one from a fairly regular correspondent – which was nice.

The weather both yesterday and today has been pretty awful – steady rain and overbearing greyness. Having the heating off yesterday was unpleasant, and its return today extremely welcome. We’re alone again tonight, but tomorrow cousin Eddie and his wife are coming for a meal.

16 January 2008

Heavy rain on Friday last week didn’t worry us too much, but Howard was the car park attendant. Well, you can’t win them all.

Dot is off for the day on an Exclusions Board, hearing an appeal by the parents of a boy who has been excluded from high school. She spent most of yesterday reading the related papers, which led to the cancellation of our normal Tuesday evening meal – that and the many apologies for absence. In the end we couldn’t reach H, who turned up, and so we did her a baked potato before Dot returned to her study.

Earlier in the day we had lunch at Park Farm before calling in to see A Ethel, who had been rumoured to be very ill. In fact she was in bed but in good spirits and quite lively, except that she couldn’t move. Her leg is very bad – probably fluid on it – and something will need to be done soon. Nevertheless we had a good chat, and left when Rodney and Angela arrived to move some of her furniture – it has to be thinned out on doctor’s orders, so that she can use a walking frame.

Afterwards we went to Waitrose, then I dropped Dot off in the city to get some boots repaired. A wet day in general: happily today is quite bright. I went to see the nurse late in the afternoon. Everything Ok, though my blood pressure is still higher than she would like. I said I didn’t want to take blood pressure tablets unless it was absolutely necessary, as I have an aversion to going on something you can’t come off. She seemed to understand this.

So it was a quiet evening. I finished a mainly graphic novel that I got for Christmas – Watchmen, by Alan Moore and Dave Gibbons. Fascinating stuff, and beautifully drawn.

BTW, I managed to lose another chess game on Monday. Yet again I got a really good position – this time against someone graded higher than me – and made a knight sacrifice which he said afterwards “should have won”. But I followed it up inaccurately, and left my king too exposed. When he just managed to get to the time control, I had to resign.

Nearly as bad as Norwich City, who went out of the FA Cup against a poor division two side (Bury) after scraping a replay at home and having to travel north. Still, Spurs are through, beating Reading 1-0 despite the absence through illness of Berbatov. They are starting to look quite reasonable in defence, but will have to be more than that in the next round at Old Trafford.

14 January 2008

End of an error, as Keith Skipper would say. My page in the EDP is occupied by someone else, and they haven’t even included an explanatory line as promised. So having ignored my retirement, it seems they’re now going to ignore my 11 years of writing a page for them. I shall not be waiting for my obituary with bated breath. Tried to ring the deputy editor, but he’s not there. Nor am I.

Meanwhile life goes on. Life for three days last week was Richard Rohr, a Franciscan monk from New Mexico, who visited Norwich to give a two-day course on contemplative Christianity, for which 150 people from all over the country converged on St Luke’s Centre. The event was “put on” by St Augustine’s, the sister church, which has very limited space, so we used the excellent facilities at St Luke’s.

Dot and I were closely involved, because Dot was in charge of all the volunteers. She is pictured in the upstairs kitchen with Howard, hard at work. Providing enough seating, eating, drinking and other facilities for that many people was quite a challenge, especially as some tables and chairs had to be transported in from St Augustine’s Hall. We borrowed a van from Besom. It’s garaged on the Larkman estate in a garage that can only be accessed through a vicarage. So we had to meet someone there, leave our car in the garage (the Larkman estate is not the safest place in Norwich) and drive to St A, where we picked up the furniture, with help from three or four others. We then drove to St Luke’s, unloaded, repeated for extra chairs, and then returned the van to the Larkman and retrieved our car. I quite enjoyed driving the van, but not carrying the furniture, though I think I avoided damaging my back.

That was on Thursday. The whole process had to be repeated on the Saturday, of course, when we had help from Ed and David. In between we did more physical work that we had done for years, setting up the furniture, laying the tables, washing up, carrying crates of crockery, assisting with cooking. Fortunately we had an amazing cook, Suzanne, who produced delicious soup, including a mushroom soup that I actually loved (previously I never liked mushroom soup at all). The team of volunteers worked really well together and formed close friendships. Dot was extremely efficient, of course, and amazingly calm.

On the Thursday, in a state of near exhaustion, we had attended a Eucharist at the Julian shrine led by Richard Rohr. This was extremely moving – there were fewer than a couple of dozen of us. RR had always been an admirer of Julian, and it was clearly a big experience for him. In the evening (after I’d cooked chilli con carne for four, including the stupendous cook – aargh) we went to an RR talk at the Cathedral, which had an audience of about 500. Inspiring stuff, too. It was the only time during the three days we heard him give a complete talk.

The two days ended with a Eucharist which wasn’t on the original programme, which was a bit hair-raising as Dot and I were requisitioned to play music with Liz and Ruth. Did one of my songs, which may be on the official CD – or it may not. The Eucharist was celebrated Iona-style, with a long table down the middle, and each person serving the bread and wine to the person opposite, who then returns the favour. The guy opposite me was a young man from Northern Ireland who has one of those faces that seem almost serenely happy, in a totally good way.

Just as we were coming up to lunch on the first day, Suzanne’s son was rushed into hospital and she received a rather anguished phone call from her mother which resulted in my driving her to hospital and leaving the assistants to serve the soup. If it had happened an hour earlier it would have been extremely difficult, but it worked OK. Her son had to have an infected foot drained, but he was well enough for her to return at the end of the afternoon to prepare for the following day.

After returning the van to the Larkman on Saturday, Dot and I went out for a meal. Prezzo’s was full so we essayed the Nelson, which turned out to be surprisingly good, despite a fair proportion of lads and ladettes in attendance. I had a good steak and Dot had an excellent fish dish, both washed down with a little too much wine. But we made it home. The last four nights, I have slept straight through.

Yesterday was a bit slower, but we managed to get to church, which is just as well, as I was leading the prayers. Rest of the day we took it pretty easy and didn’t move any furniture at all. I did cook a roast dinner, though.

The weather throughout wasn’t too bad. Happily the day of heavy rain was Friday, when we weren’t moving chairs and tables. Today it’s windy, and there have been floods in other parts of the country, with worse forecast.

7 January 2008

Amy gets enthusiastic in Wollaton Hall deer park. Today is wild and stormy, and NASA and the Space and Science Research Center in Florida are saying that their research into sun spot changes indicates that we are in for a quarter-century cold period not unlike the Little Ice Age at the end of the eighteenth century. We shall see.

Thought I’d share with you a letter from the Sunday Telegraph:

Congratulations to the scientists who have developed technology that enables mobile phones to be used under water. Perhaps they could now invent technology that enables mobile phones to be used in north Norfolk.

Amy appears to be having a similar problem, but in her case it may be the type of mobile phone (the “Princess”) that’s the key.